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Most people think they’d love to hear 1,000 solid reasons — because it sounds flattering, detailed, and reassuring. It feeds the mind’s need for proof and makes us feel deeply known. But honestly, the feeling of being loved or liked isn’t about logic.
When someone says “I like you, and I don’t even know why — I just do” it hits something deeper. It means it’s not earned, it’s not a checklist — it’s real, raw affection. It feels unconditional. You don’t have to be or do anything specific — you’re just liked because you’re you.
So, most people — once they really feel it — would be more moved by the unreasonable love than the long list of reasons. The reasons fade. The feeling stays.
Sometimes love has reasons, and sometimes it's just a feeling beyond logic. Both are real. Maybe it’s not about choosing one, but trusting what your heart knows before your mind catches up.
Appreciate your perspective,there’s something beautiful in how you embrace the surreal and raw side of affection.Some people do like this way ,I understand.
Yeahhh truee, I have seen people with both nature and respect both.Sometimes love has reasons, and sometimes it's just a feeling beyond logic. Both are real. Maybe it’s not about choosing one, but trusting what your heart knows before your mind catches up.
Maybe it's completely in what comes along their way,and how their heart and mind choose to align
hi i just share my thoughts..!!
On one side, love can absolutely be rooted in reasons shared values, compatibility, support, physical attraction, or emotional connection. People may say, I love them because they make me laugh or They’re so kind and caring. These reasons form the foundation of love for a lot of people because, in the beginning, you often need to explain why someone is special to you. It’s almost like you need to justify it to yourself and others.
On the other hand, there’s the more mysterious side of love, where it doesn’t make sense, doesn’t follow any particular logic, and doesn’t fit into a neat little box. It's almost as if love is a force of nature or energy that can be felt instantly, without reason. It’s like the magnetic pull between two people that just clicks, and no amount of explanation can fully capture it. It doesn’t need reasons to exist; it just does.
its my point of view and experience.. hope you understand.. Thank u
That's a lovely description for both sides
Btw which side do u realise wanna experience?
Intha kalathula true love expect panravanuku 
Life eh uncertain love emmathiram
Life eh uncertain love emmathiram
That's a lovely description for both sides
Btw which side do u realise wanna experience.
I am bad at suggesting or experiencing.
Ahaa… but still, I believe love exists. Maybe not everywhere, but in some hearts, it's still pure and true.
Life might be uncertain… but as long as we’re here, we’re not gonna just sit quiet
We’ll experience everything ...sometimes it might hurt, sometimes it might teach us something..but that’s what makes it worth living.
agreed with your statement... its true..Ahaa… but still, I believe love exists. Maybe not everywhere, but in some hearts, it's still pure and true.
Life might be uncertain… but as long as we’re here, we’re not gonna just sit quiet
We’ll experience everything ...sometimes it might hurt, sometimes it might teach us something..but that’s what makes it worth living.
Experience happens when you step out and try things .. even the uncertain ones.
I genuinely hope you come across beautiful things in life… things that make your heart feel light
Ellam vasthavam than rose uh nama real life la elarum nikkama oditey irukom ups and downs iruku ithuku mathila sila ponnungaluku arranged marriage seyyapaduthu athuku athigamana Karanam appa amma ku vayasaguthu avanga irukapove ponnuku valkai amachu kudukanum ninaikranga and intha vishyathula namaku experience ilanu periyavangala ketalum athan sari nu solranga ipo sollu oru ponnu intha situation la true love ah expect panranga na avanga etha choose pannanum ena pothupadaya pesrapo elamey varuthu la neraya ponnungaluku intha kelvi irukum amma appakaga pannikalama nu antha nerathula avanga true love oru ponnu expect pani wait pananuma or kidacha life ah pudicha Mari amachukanuma oru solution or advice
Appa amma kaaga kalyanam panirukravanga inu irukanga nu solrathuku kastama tha iruku, tbh no one should marry cause of someone's pressure, vera vali ila nu nenaikum bothu tha kedacha vechu santhosama irupom nu yosi panga
But ipdi yosika veikura society la valrathu romba kastam!
Unkita itha nan en keten na appa amma ku nu oru kastam irukum but avangalam namaloda reflection than nama age thandi than varanga ipo unaku aasa irukatha un ponno payyano nee irukapove avangaluku kalyanam panni pathuruvomey nu but intha mari pannithan nama kannuku munnadi oru sui##de case Athuvum bayama than iruku nan itha en unkita kekren na un mindset ku ithu epdi paduthu nu therinjika than intha mentality intha pala pengaluku oru vedhanaya iruku en friends sila per ku iruku athan avangaluku enala ena solrathu nu therila oru bold aana ponna unoda answer ena
I understand da… But I genuinely feel that kind of mentality is flawed ... even from the parents’ side.
Marriage isn’t something that affects just one life; it ties two souls, two futures.
How can anyone decide on something so big without even trying to understand what the other person truly wants or feels?
Parents only role is to teach us to think wisely and make the right decisions. But when it comes to this, shouldn't they trust the very values they gave us?
I don't think marriage should be in a hurry,parents kaaga va irukatum or society kaaga irukatum
It should not happen either way..
Ok clear decision ipdi elarum irunthuta problem ila ethula na correct aana partner ah select panrathula and correct aana carrier amaichukrathula enaku intha vishyatha oru ponnukita kekanum pola irunthuchu athan ketuten thanks for the right answers