Most people think they’d love to hear 1,000 solid reasons — because it sounds flattering, detailed, and reassuring. It feeds the mind’s need for proof and makes us feel deeply known. But honestly, the feeling of being loved or liked isn’t about logic.Does love comes with a reason or comes without any reason?
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I have constantly given so much thoughts on this and now want to get more views from y'all..
I know" love is subjective "
but there would be some common things that we all could agree on and I wanted to know that.
I have seen people who have so much reasons to give someone why they love them..
Like ,
>“She understands me.”
>“He makes me feel safe.”
>“We just align on everything.”
And had equally enough people to point it out in sense
Like,
> “I don’t know why. I just do.”
No explanations. No checklist. Just a feeling that pulls them in. It’s like their heart decided before their mind even tried to understand it.
So..which is it???
What u guys think?
Maybe I should think less abt trying to figure it out and let the intuition take the lead?
Maybe just enjoy the Chaotic and mysterious part of it??
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Tell me guys would be happy if someone gives u 1000 solid reasons why they like u or..just someone who say they like u unreasonably ?!
Sometimes love has reasons, and sometimes it's just a feeling beyond logic. Both are real. Maybe it’s not about choosing one, but trusting what your heart knows before your mind catches up.Does love comes with a reason or comes without any reason?
View attachment 350416
I have constantly given so much thoughts on this and now want to get more views from y'all..
I know" love is subjective "
but there would be some common things that we all could agree on and I wanted to know that.
I have seen people who have so much reasons to give someone why they love them..
Like ,
>“She understands me.”
>“He makes me feel safe.”
>“We just align on everything.”
And had equally enough people to point it out in sense
Like,
> “I don’t know why. I just do.”
No explanations. No checklist. Just a feeling that pulls them in. It’s like their heart decided before their mind even tried to understand it.
So..which is it???
What u guys think?
Maybe I should think less abt trying to figure it out and let the intuition take the lead?
Maybe just enjoy the Chaotic and mysterious part of it??
View attachment 350417
Tell me guys would be happy if someone gives u 1000 solid reasons why they like u or..just someone who say they like u unreasonably ?!
Appreciate your perspective,there’s something beautiful in how you embrace the surreal and raw side of affection.Some people do like this way ,I understand.Most people think they’d love to hear 1,000 solid reasons — because it sounds flattering, detailed, and reassuring. It feeds the mind’s need for proof and makes us feel deeply known. But honestly, the feeling of being loved or liked isn’t about logic.
When someone says “I like you, and I don’t even know why — I just do” it hits something deeper. It means it’s not earned, it’s not a checklist — it’s real, raw affection. It feels unconditional. You don’t have to be or do anything specific — you’re just liked because you’re you.
So, most people — once they really feel it — would be more moved by the unreasonable love than the long list of reasons. The reasons fade. The feeling stays.
Yeahhh truee, I have seen people with both nature and respect both.Sometimes love has reasons, and sometimes it's just a feeling beyond logic. Both are real. Maybe it’s not about choosing one, but trusting what your heart knows before your mind catches up.![]()
Does love comes with a reason or comes without any reason?
View attachment 350416
I have constantly given so much thoughts on this and now want to get more views from y'all..
I know" love is subjective "
but there would be some common things that we all could agree on and I wanted to know that.
I have seen people who have so much reasons to give someone why they love them..
Like ,
>“She understands me.”
>“He makes me feel safe.”
>“We just align on everything.”
And had equally enough people to point it out in sense
Like,
> “I don’t know why. I just do.”
No explanations. No checklist. Just a feeling that pulls them in. It’s like their heart decided before their mind even tried to understand it.
So..which is it???
What u guys think?
Maybe I should think less abt trying to figure it out and let the intuition take the lead?
Maybe just enjoy the Chaotic and mysterious part of it??
View attachment 350417
Tell me guys would be happy if someone gives u 1000 solid reasons why they like u or..just someone who say they like u unreasonably ?!
That's a lovely description for both sideshi i just share my thoughts..!!
On one side, love can absolutely be rooted in reasons shared values, compatibility, support, physical attraction, or emotional connection. People may say, I love them because they make me laugh or They’re so kind and caring. These reasons form the foundation of love for a lot of people because, in the beginning, you often need to explain why someone is special to you. It’s almost like you need to justify it to yourself and others.
On the other hand, there’s the more mysterious side of love, where it doesn’t make sense, doesn’t follow any particular logic, and doesn’t fit into a neat little box. It's almost as if love is a force of nature or energy that can be felt instantly, without reason. It’s like the magnetic pull between two people that just clicks, and no amount of explanation can fully capture it. It doesn’t need reasons to exist; it just does.
its my point of view and experience.. hope you understand.. Thank u