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Love is not working that way❤️

sulthan

sulthan

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Dear lovely souls,
We all know how to love while most of us are lucky enough to get it back too. Love in its purest form is freely given and recieved. Its not something we can manipulate or forced no matter how much we wish it could be.But most of us has a belief that if we love someone harder and harder eventually they will see our worth and they will love us back.But its not how it works.love is not a transaction or something like that where efforts will get rewards.Love should be a mutual feeling like two souls are meant to be dance in harmony.

But what if u find dancing alone? When u find dancing alone giving all yourself while getting a little in return, its time to pause and reflect.

Love should lift you up, not leave you drained and questioning your worth.if a person u loves not loving back doesnt means you are unworthy.it simply means their journey is not aligned with yours .It may be because their heart might be on a different path seeking something else.

Letting go of hope that you can make someone by loving them harder is an act of self respect and self love.it's acknowledging that you deserve more than unreciprocated affection.so hold on to your love cherish it but don't waste it on someone who cannot or will not return it.

"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder, but you can love yourself enough to walk away from what isn’t meant for you and make room for the love you truly deserve."

With love
A failed lover
A hopeless romantic

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sulthan said:
Dear lovely souls,
We all know how to love while most of us are lucky enough to get it back too. Love in its purest form is freely given and recieved. Its not something we can manipulate or forced no matter how much we wish it could be.But most of us has a belief that if we love someone harder and harder eventually they will see our worth and they will love us back.But its not how it works.love is not a transaction or something like that where efforts will get rewards.Love should be a mutual feeling like two souls are meant to be dance in harmony.

But what if u find dancing alone? When u find dancing alone giving all yourself while getting a little in return, its time to pause and reflect.

Love should lift you up, not leave you drained and questioning your worth.if a person u loves not loving back doesnt means you are unworthy.it simply means their journey is not aligned with yours .It may be because their heart might be on a different path seeking something else.

Letting go of hope that you can make someone by loving them harder is an act of self respect and self love.it's acknowledging that you deserve more than unreciprocated affection.so hold on to your love cherish it but don't waste it on someone who cannot or will not return it.

"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder, but you can love yourself enough to walk away from what isn’t meant for you and make room for the love you truly deserve."

With love
A failed lover
A hopeless romantic

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Most of them doesn't understand or have the maturity to realise what LOVE actually is. It needs a stronger will. That's why it doesnt last long.

Infatuation isn't love.:)
 
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sulthan said:
Dear lovely souls,
We all know how to love while most of us are lucky enough to get it back too. Love in its purest form is freely given and recieved. Its not something we can manipulate or forced no matter how much we wish it could be.But most of us has a belief that if we love someone harder and harder eventually they will see our worth and they will love us back.But its not how it works.love is not a transaction or something like that where efforts will get rewards.Love should be a mutual feeling like two souls are meant to be dance in harmony.

But what if u find dancing alone? When u find dancing alone giving all yourself while getting a little in return, its time to pause and reflect.

Love should lift you up, not leave you drained and questioning your worth.if a person u loves not loving back doesnt means you are unworthy.it simply means their journey is not aligned with yours .It may be because their heart might be on a different path seeking something else.

Letting go of hope that you can make someone by loving them harder is an act of self respect and self love.it's acknowledging that you deserve more than unreciprocated affection.so hold on to your love cherish it but don't waste it on someone who cannot or will not return it.

"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder, but you can love yourself enough to walk away from what isn’t meant for you and make room for the love you truly deserve."

With love
A failed lover
A hopeless romantic

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It need immense courage to walk away from where our heart once belonged..... trust yourself nd get healed..... somethings have to End for Better things to Begin....
 
im not an expert in love even i question it myself.
But i saw somewhere

If it makes your heart race, and overly excited , its infatuation

If you feel calm and in peace, it is Love..


Plus this one Love never fails, if it fail it is not Love .. so that’s when i thought it all makes sense.
 
JackDani said:
Most of them doesn't understand or have the maturity to realise what LOVE actually is. It needs a stronger will. That's why it doesnt last long.

Infatuation isn't love.:)
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Exactly... But everything starts from infatuation right? And we started to love someone when those butterflies and infatuations are gone..
Like we felt like they are a part of ourself
 
shivagni said:
It need immense courage to walk away from where our heart once belonged..... trust yourself nd get healed..... somethings have to End for Better things to Begin....
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Ofcourse... Let the wounds get healed and become beautiful scars..Ty for ur words

:heart1:
 
Octavia said:
im not an expert in love even i question it myself.
But i saw somewhere

If it makes your heart race, and overly excited , its infatuation

If you feel calm and in peace, it is Love..


Plus this one Love never fails, if it fail it is not Love .. so that’s when i thought it all makes sense.
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Its not the love which fail us.. its the expectation we have that they will value our love... Invest your love in the place where it's appreciated

Plus no one is expert in love

:heart1:
 
sulthan said:
Exactly... But everything starts from infatuation right? And we started to love someone when those butterflies and infatuations are gone..
Like we felt like they are a part of ourself
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Infatuation is a fantasy and based on beauty/interests. Those butterflies will get evolved into a bee and stings you hard when it comes to reality:Cwl:.


Love is a commitment, mutual respect, & comprises of many other parameters. The feelings may change when you started to see the real colors or the way they behave. It will be a long journey to build that bridge strongly. It happens only when both the souls are devoted to each other.
And that's a rare case scenario;).
 
JackDani said:
Infatuation is a fantasy and based on beauty/interests. Those butterflies will get evolved into a bee and stings you hard when it comes to reality:Cwl:.


Love is a commitment, mutual respect, & comprises of many other parameters. The feelings may change when you started to see the real colors or the way they behave. It will be a long journey to build that bridge strongly. That happens only when both the souls are devoted to each other.
And that's a rare case scenario;).
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Lol that's ryt:Cwl:

But in any relationships the only way to know their true colours are to spend some time with them..The only thing we can do to save us from getting hurted is not expect them or fancy them before we got belief that they will be with us:inlove:
 
sulthan said:
Dear lovely souls,
We all know how to love while most of us are lucky enough to get it back too. Love in its purest form is freely given and recieved. Its not something we can manipulate or forced no matter how much we wish it could be.But most of us has a belief that if we love someone harder and harder eventually they will see our worth and they will love us back.But its not how it works.love is not a transaction or something like that where efforts will get rewards.Love should be a mutual feeling like two souls are meant to be dance in harmony.

But what if u find dancing alone? When u find dancing alone giving all yourself while getting a little in return, its time to pause and reflect.

Love should lift you up, not leave you drained and questioning your worth.if a person u loves not loving back doesnt means you are unworthy.it simply means their journey is not aligned with yours .It may be because their heart might be on a different path seeking something else.

Letting go of hope that you can make someone by loving them harder is an act of self respect and self love.it's acknowledging that you deserve more than unreciprocated affection.so hold on to your love cherish it but don't waste it on someone who cannot or will not return it.

"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder, but you can love yourself enough to walk away from what isn’t meant for you and make room for the love you truly deserve."

With love
A failed lover
A hopeless romantic

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If you are forced to walk away from thy very person, whom U adore day n nyt; then thy love failure is a boon u have ever got!

I donno why...... but, in every relation- always n always there is a seesaw working lol.
every tym there is a party who takes thy effort to buck up thy relation, n there exist a party who is un-stirred thy things happening between them- whether its a backstab ya breakup!! IMAO

For some people *love* is just some random word n their dictionary dat they fancy- to fulfil their lust? Yhm, whatever...

Simply Before indulging yrself in a relation pls specify what u want- its too basic!

If u want sex, make it clear.
If u want a fuck toy, then make it clear.
If u want a helot, then make it clear.

Donn make thy opposite party crave for u in vain!

Thy thing is-
He/she isn't made to fit your heart. Simple!

Whatever- apart from thy theories ya blah blahss, it hurts!!
Tho, tym washes away every pain n even wid out a prior info, we'll forget abt them one fyn mrng.
 
sulthan said:
Lol that's ryt:Cwl:

But in any relationships the only way to know their true colours are to spend some time with them..The only thing we can do to save us from getting hurted is not expect them or fancy them before we got belief that they will be with us:inlove:
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Yup. But in reality our heart doesn't listen when we say "Don't have expectations".

If it happens, then it's GOD level maturity that a person has and nothing can hurt him in whatever way it ends :Laugh1:.
I haven't seen one like that in my life so far.;)
 
sulthan said:
Lol that's ryt:Cwl:

But in any relationships the only way to know their true colours are to spend some time with them..The only thing we can do to save us from getting hurted is not expect them or fancy them before we got belief that they will be with us:inlove:
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JackDani said:
Yup. But in reality our heart doesn't listen when we say "Don't have expectations".

If it happens, then it's GOD level maturity that a person has and nothing can hurt him in whatever way it ends :Laugh1:.
I haven't seen one like that in my life so far.;)
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Yea agreed.......

But we r all humans ryt? N a lyf wid out expectations is simply spartan.

Thy thing is....... donn bequeath more luv from yr part, just keep a line. Give n take policy sh'd be pivotal- if it's only a *give only policy*, them stamp a *fuck off* poster on yr temple lol: ):p
 
ℇlαᖇα said:
Yea agreed.......

But we r all humans ryt? N a lyf wid out expectations is simply spartan.

Thy thing is....... donn bequeath more luv from yr part, just keep a line. Give n take policy sh'd be pivotal- if it's only a *give only policy*, them stamp a *fuck off* poster on yr temple lol: ):p
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We are humans.. that's the only problem :Cwl: .
 
sulthan said:
Dear lovely souls,
We all know how to love while most of us are lucky enough to get it back too. Love in its purest form is freely given and recieved. Its not something we can manipulate or forced no matter how much we wish it could be.But most of us has a belief that if we love someone harder and harder eventually they will see our worth and they will love us back.But its not how it works.love is not a transaction or something like that where efforts will get rewards.Love should be a mutual feeling like two souls are meant to be dance in harmony.

But what if u find dancing alone? When u find dancing alone giving all yourself while getting a little in return, its time to pause and reflect.

Love should lift you up, not leave you drained and questioning your worth.if a person u loves not loving back doesnt means you are unworthy.it simply means their journey is not aligned with yours .It may be because their heart might be on a different path seeking something else.

Letting go of hope that you can make someone by loving them harder is an act of self respect and self love.it's acknowledging that you deserve more than unreciprocated affection.so hold on to your love cherish it but don't waste it on someone who cannot or will not return it.

"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder, but you can love yourself enough to walk away from what isn’t meant for you and make room for the love you truly deserve."

With love
A failed lover
A hopeless romantic

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Ith nthonn aahn... Chuluuu
 
ℇlαᖇα said:
If you are forced to walk away from thy very person, whom U adore day n nyt; then thy love failure is a boon u have ever got!

I donno why...... but, in every relation- always n always there is a seesaw working lol.
every tym there is a party who takes thy effort to buck up thy relation, n there exist a party who is un-stirred thy things happening between them- whether its a backstab ya breakup!! IMAO

For some people *love* is just some random word n their dictionary dat they fancy- to fulfil their lust? Yhm, whatever...

Simply Before indulging yrself in a relation pls specify what u want- its too basic!

If u want sex, make it clear.
If u want a fuck toy, then make it clear.
If u want a helot, then make it clear.

Donn make thy opposite party crave for u in vain!

Thy thing is-
He/she isn't made to fit your heart. Simple!

Whatever- apart from thy theories ya blah blahss, it hurts!!
Tho, tym washes away every pain n even wid out a prior info, we'll forget abt them one fyn mrng.
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Yeaa:)
 
ℇlαᖇα said:
Yea agreed.......

But we r all humans ryt? N a lyf wid out expectations is simply spartan.

Thy thing is....... donn bequeath more luv from yr part, just keep a line. Give n take policy sh'd be pivotal- if it's only a *give only policy*, them stamp a *fuck off* poster on yr temple lol: ):p
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Lol...its what it is :Cwl:
 
sulthan said:
Dear lovely souls,
We all know how to love while most of us are lucky enough to get it back too. Love in its purest form is freely given and recieved. Its not something we can manipulate or forced no matter how much we wish it could be.But most of us has a belief that if we love someone harder and harder eventually they will see our worth and they will love us back.But its not how it works.love is not a transaction or something like that where efforts will get rewards.Love should be a mutual feeling like two souls are meant to be dance in harmony.

But what if u find dancing alone? When u find dancing alone giving all yourself while getting a little in return, its time to pause and reflect.

Love should lift you up, not leave you drained and questioning your worth.if a person u loves not loving back doesnt means you are unworthy.it simply means their journey is not aligned with yours .It may be because their heart might be on a different path seeking something else.

Letting go of hope that you can make someone by loving them harder is an act of self respect and self love.it's acknowledging that you deserve more than unreciprocated affection.so hold on to your love cherish it but don't waste it on someone who cannot or will not return it.

"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder, but you can love yourself enough to walk away from what isn’t meant for you and make room for the love you truly deserve."

With love
A failed lover
A hopeless romantic

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Dear failed lover,

Your words resonate deeply Love should always be mutual, but when it’s not, it’s important to remember that your worth isn’t defined by someone else’s inability to love you back. Walking away from unreciprocated love is an act of self-respect, and it opens space for the love you truly deserve. You’ve beautifully reminded us that love isn’t a transaction, and sometimes, the greatest act of love is giving it to yourself
 
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