Dear lovely souls,
We all know how to love while most of us are lucky enough to get it back too. Love in its purest form is freely given and recieved. Its not something we can manipulate or forced no matter how much we wish it could be.But most of us has a belief that if we love someone harder and harder eventually they will see our worth and they will love us back.But its not how it works.love is not a transaction or something like that where efforts will get rewards.Love should be a mutual feeling like two souls are meant to be dance in harmony.
But what if u find dancing alone? When u find dancing alone giving all yourself while getting a little in return, its time to pause and reflect.
Love should lift you up, not leave you drained and questioning your worth.if a person u loves not loving back doesnt means you are unworthy.it simply means their journey is not aligned with yours .It may be because their heart might be on a different path seeking something else.
Letting go of hope that you can make someone by loving them harder is an act of self respect and self love.it's acknowledging that you deserve more than unreciprocated affection.so hold on to your love cherish it but don't waste it on someone who cannot or will not return it.
"You cannot make someone love you by loving them harder, but you can love yourself enough to walk away from what isn’t meant for you and make room for the love you truly deserve."
With love
A failed lover
A hopeless romantic
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