The Beauty in Being Unavailable

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Being unavailable to certain people is an act of self-love and a way of protecting your peace. It's a quiet decision to put your own well-being first, to guard the energy that others might unknowingly drain. We've been taught that we should always be there for everyone, but true strength lies in knowing when to step back. Choosing to be unavailable isn't about being unkind; it's about being kind to yourself. It's an essential boundary that says, "My peace is not for everyone to disturb."
The space you create between yourself and certain individuals is a sacred one. It's a boundary that prevents emotional clutter from seeping into your life. This isn't about cutting people off completely but about establishing a respectful distance. It's the silent acknowledgement that some connections are not meant to be all-consuming and that some people do not deserve unrestricted access to your time and energy. This space allows you to breathe, reflect, and reclaim your sense of self.
Ultimately, this act of unavailability is a powerful form of self-care. It's a way of honoring your own emotional needs and investing your energy where it truly matters. By creating these boundaries, you pave the way for more meaningful and reciprocal relationships, and you discover the profound joy that comes from truly putting yourself first.
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[Dom55]

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Being unavailable to certain people is an act of self-love and a way of protecting your peace. It's a quiet decision to put your own well-being first, to guard the energy that others might unknowingly drain. We've been taught that we should always be there for everyone, but true strength lies in knowing when to step back. Choosing to be unavailable isn't about being unkind; it's about being kind to yourself. It's an essential boundary that says, "My peace is not for everyone to disturb."
The space you create between yourself and certain individuals is a sacred one. It's a boundary that prevents emotional clutter from seeping into your life. This isn't about cutting people off completely but about establishing a respectful distance. It's the silent acknowledgement that some connections are not meant to be all-consuming and that some people do not deserve unrestricted access to your time and energy. This space allows you to breathe, reflect, and reclaim your sense of self.
Ultimately, this act of unavailability is a powerful form of self-care. It's a way of honoring your own emotional needs and investing your energy where it truly matters. By creating these boundaries, you pave the way for more meaningful and reciprocal relationships, and you discover the profound joy that comes from truly putting yourself first.
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Very practical approach. Perfectly alright. Unless you are not happy, you cant make others happy. And to be happy , if you need to avoid few , no need to hesitate.

 

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Very practical approach. Perfectly alright. Unless you are not happy, you cant make others happy. And to be happy , if you need to avoid few , no need to hesitate.

Yeah... Am very practical in real life.

 

[Illusion]

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Being unavailable to certain people is an act of self-love and a way of protecting your peace. It's a quiet decision to put your own well-being first, to guard the energy that others might unknowingly drain. We've been taught that we should always be there for everyone, but true strength lies in knowing when to step back. Choosing to be unavailable isn't about being unkind; it's about being kind to yourself. It's an essential boundary that says, "My peace is not for everyone to disturb."
The space you create between yourself and certain individuals is a sacred one. It's a boundary that prevents emotional clutter from seeping into your life. This isn't about cutting people off completely but about establishing a respectful distance. It's the silent acknowledgement that some connections are not meant to be all-consuming and that some people do not deserve unrestricted access to your time and energy. This space allows you to breathe, reflect, and reclaim your sense of self.
Ultimately, this act of unavailability is a powerful form of self-care. It's a way of honoring your own emotional needs and investing your energy where it truly matters. By creating these boundaries, you pave the way for more meaningful and reciprocal relationships, and you discover the profound joy that comes from truly putting yourself first.
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But when I call u and it says ' THE NUMBER U HAVE DIAL IS CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE " it's literally makes me feel annoyed dearooo

 

[Mayaasurabhi]

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Being unavailable to certain people is an act of self-love and a way of protecting your peace. It's a quiet decision to put your own well-being first, to guard the energy that others might unknowingly drain. We've been taught that we should always be there for everyone, but true strength lies in knowing when to step back. Choosing to be unavailable isn't about being unkind; it's about being kind to yourself. It's an essential boundary that says, "My peace is not for everyone to disturb."
The space you create between yourself and certain individuals is a sacred one. It's a boundary that prevents emotional clutter from seeping into your life. This isn't about cutting people off completely but about establishing a respectful distance. It's the silent acknowledgement that some connections are not meant to be all-consuming and that some people do not deserve unrestricted access to your time and energy. This space allows you to breathe, reflect, and reclaim your sense of self.
Ultimately, this act of unavailability is a powerful form of self-care. It's a way of honoring your own emotional needs and investing your energy where it truly matters. By creating these boundaries, you pave the way for more meaningful and reciprocal relationships, and you discover the profound joy that comes from truly putting yourself first.
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ithine alle ghosting, silent treatment ennoke parayunnath

 

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ithine alle ghosting, silent treatment ennoke parayunnath

You can call it whatever you want. But for me, it's a kind of self-love only. Staying away or setting up boundaries with some people to keep myself in a very calm and peaceful state. I told you also na... That I will stay away from you as I don't want to become a story material for you.

 

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But when I call u and it says ' THE NUMBER U HAVE DIAL IS CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE " it's literally makes me feel annoyed dearooo

Hey... Am extremely sorry for that. It happened just once only. Right? And how many times I told you sorry. But still you tell the same and hurts me. Now I will take a new SIM just for you only and the number will be shared with you only. No one is going to call me in that number other than you.

 

[Neema]

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Being unavailable to certain people is an act of self-love and a way of protecting your peace. It's a quiet decision to put your own well-being first, to guard the energy that others might unknowingly drain. We've been taught that we should always be there for everyone, but true strength lies in knowing when to step back. Choosing to be unavailable isn't about being unkind; it's about being kind to yourself. It's an essential boundary that says, "My peace is not for everyone to disturb."
The space you create between yourself and certain individuals is a sacred one. It's a boundary that prevents emotional clutter from seeping into your life. This isn't about cutting people off completely but about establishing a respectful distance. It's the silent acknowledgement that some connections are not meant to be all-consuming and that some people do not deserve unrestricted access to your time and energy. This space allows you to breathe, reflect, and reclaim your sense of self.
Ultimately, this act of unavailability is a powerful form of self-care. It's a way of honoring your own emotional needs and investing your energy where it truly matters. By creating these boundaries, you pave the way for more meaningful and reciprocal relationships, and you discover the profound joy that comes from truly putting yourself first.
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I really connect with this. Choosing to be unavailable and stepping back at times is one of the healthiest things we can do for ourselves, to protects our inner peace. Boundaries don’t drive people away; they simply reveal who truly values and respects our space....

 

[Sweetheart]

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Being unavailable to certain people is an act of self-love and a way of protecting your peace. It's a quiet decision to put your own well-being first, to guard the energy that others might unknowingly drain. We've been taught that we should always be there for everyone, but true strength lies in knowing when to step back. Choosing to be unavailable isn't about being unkind; it's about being kind to yourself. It's an essential boundary that says, "My peace is not for everyone to disturb."
The space you create between yourself and certain individuals is a sacred one. It's a boundary that prevents emotional clutter from seeping into your life. This isn't about cutting people off completely but about establishing a respectful distance. It's the silent acknowledgement that some connections are not meant to be all-consuming and that some people do not deserve unrestricted access to your time and energy. This space allows you to breathe, reflect, and reclaim your sense of self.
Ultimately, this act of unavailability is a powerful form of self-care. It's a way of honoring your own emotional needs and investing your energy where it truly matters. By creating these boundaries, you pave the way for more meaningful and reciprocal relationships, and you discover the profound joy that comes from truly putting yourself first.
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Such a real and relatable discussion! Setting boundaries is essential for protecting our peace and emotional well-being, even if it means being ‘unavailable’ sometimes. It’s a kind act towards ourselves, not a rejection of others. But as we see here, it also takes patience and understanding from both sides—because behind every boundary is a desire to preserve connection without losing oneself. Truly, self-love is a journey of balance, respect, and sometimes tough choices​

 

[Mayaasurabhi]

You can call it whatever you want. But for me, it's a kind of self-love only. Staying away or setting up boundaries with some people to keep myself in a very calm and peaceful state. I told you also na... That I will stay away from you as I don't want to become a story material for you.

But self-love at what cost... You‘re leaving the person who loves you self-lessly through confusions and self-doubts. Ithee sambavam njan angot cheythitum und, ingotu kittitum und. So athinte vedana nallonam ariyam... Idakk oru silent space edkunnath nallatha, but clearly paranjit povanel both parties will be happy. Inippo karanam illenkil best response is “busy” which most people use... Hmm ellarkum ororuthardethaya ways und so I think that‘s your preferred way.

Ente story material akande irikkan aano mindade poyeee shyoooo. Tbh njan ivdethe aare vechum story indakit illa. Ella storiesum 2022-24 aanu

 

[Illusion]

Hey... Am extremely sorry for that. It happened just once only. Right? And how many times I told you sorry. But still you tell the same and hurts me. Now I will take a new SIM just for you only and the number will be shared with you only. No one is going to call me in that number other than you.

Yess that's nice I'll wait for ur call

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Such a real and relatable discussion! Setting boundaries is essential for protecting our peace and emotional well-being, even if it means being ‘unavailable’ sometimes. It’s a kind act towards ourselves, not a rejection of others. But as we see here, it also takes patience and understanding from both sides—because behind every boundary is a desire to preserve connection without losing oneself. Truly, self-love is a journey of balance, respect, and sometimes tough choices​

Yeah... True... And I liked the last usage... Sometimes tough choices.

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

But self-love at what cost... You‘re leaving the person who loves you self-lessly through confusions and self-doubts. Ithee sambavam njan angot cheythitum und, ingotu kittitum und. So athinte vedana nallonam ariyam... Idakk oru silent space edkunnath nallatha, but clearly paranjit povanel both parties will be happy. Inippo karanam illenkil best response is “busy” which most people use... Hmm ellarkum ororuthardethaya ways und so I think that‘s your preferred way.

Ente story material akande irikkan aano mindade poyeee shyoooo. Tbh njan ivdethe aare vechum story indakit illa. Ella storiesum 2022-24 aanu

ഏഹ്... ഞാൻ എപ്പോഴും കാരണങ്ങൾ പറയാറുണ്ട്ട്ടാ... അന്നോടും ഞാൻ കാരണം പറഞ്ഞില്ലേ...
ഞാൻ അന്നോട് മിണ്ടാം... പക്ഷേ ഇജ്ജ് അന്ന് പറഞ്ഞ ഒരു കഥ ഇല്ലേ... അതുപോലെ ഒരു മുദ്രപ്പത്രം ആയി ഞാൻ വരാം. അതിൽ ഇജ്ജ് രണ്ട്‌ കാര്യങ്ങൾ സമ്മതിച്ചു ഒപ്പിട്ടു തരണം. ഒന്നാമത്തേത് ഇജ്ജ് എന്നെ അന്റെ കഥയിൽ നായകനാക്കി ഇവിടെ കഥ പോസ്റ്റ് ചെയ്യില്ലെന്ന്‌. രണ്ടാമത്തേത് നമ്മുടെ അവിഹിത ബന്ധം വേറെ ആരോടും പറയാതെ രഹസ്യം ആക്കി വെക്കുമെന്നും.

 

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Yess that's nice I'll wait for ur call

Just now saw your message. I really want to call you right now but as you can't talk now, will call you tomorrow. Till then miss me dearooo...

 

[Anshhi]

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Being unavailable to certain people is an act of self-love and a way of protecting your peace. It's a quiet decision to put your own well-being first, to guard the energy that others might unknowingly drain. We've been taught that we should always be there for everyone, but true strength lies in knowing when to step back. Choosing to be unavailable isn't about being unkind; it's about being kind to yourself. It's an essential boundary that says, "My peace is not for everyone to disturb."
The space you create between yourself and certain individuals is a sacred one. It's a boundary that prevents emotional clutter from seeping into your life. This isn't about cutting people off completely but about establishing a respectful distance. It's the silent acknowledgement that some connections are not meant to be all-consuming and that some people do not deserve unrestricted access to your time and energy. This space allows you to breathe, reflect, and reclaim your sense of self.
Ultimately, this act of unavailability is a powerful form of self-care. It's a way of honoring your own emotional needs and investing your energy where it truly matters. By creating these boundaries, you pave the way for more meaningful and reciprocal relationships, and you discover the profound joy that comes from truly putting yourself first.
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A great reminder that choosing ourselves isn't selfish, it's essential.

Awesome Intelligence™​

 

[Mayaasurabhi]

ഏഹ്... ഞാൻ എപ്പോഴും കാരണങ്ങൾ പറയാറുണ്ട്ട്ടാ... അന്നോടും ഞാൻ കാരണം പറഞ്ഞില്ലേ...
ഞാൻ അന്നോട് മിണ്ടാം... പക്ഷേ ഇജ്ജ് അന്ന് പറഞ്ഞ ഒരു കഥ ഇല്ലേ... അതുപോലെ ഒരു മുദ്രപ്പത്രം ആയി ഞാൻ വരാം. അതിൽ ഇജ്ജ് രണ്ട്‌ കാര്യങ്ങൾ സമ്മതിച്ചു ഒപ്പിട്ടു തരണം. ഒന്നാമത്തേത് ഇജ്ജ് എന്നെ അന്റെ കഥയിൽ നായകനാക്കി ഇവിടെ കഥ പോസ്റ്റ് ചെയ്യില്ലെന്ന്‌. രണ്ടാമത്തേത് നമ്മുടെ അവിഹിത ബന്ധം വേറെ ആരോടും പറയാതെ രഹസ്യം ആക്കി വെക്കുമെന്നും.

poothi kollaaam

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

poothi kollaaam

അനക്ക് എന്നെ ഇഷ്ടമാണെന്നു എനിക്ക് തോന്നിയത് കൊണ്ട് പറഞ്ഞതല്ലേ മാഷേ... ഇനി ഇപ്പോൾ മാഷ്ക്ക് വേണ്ടേൽ ഞാൻ അത് വിട്ടു.

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

A great reminder that choosing ourselves isn't selfish, it's essential.

Awesome Intelligence™​

I felt like that you are forgetting this nowadays, so I just thought of reminding you.

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

I really connect with this. Choosing to be unavailable and stepping back at times is one of the healthiest things we can do for ourselves, to protects our inner peace. Boundaries don’t drive people away; they simply reveal who truly values and respects our space....

I didn't meant this for you. You shoul feel lucky as I am always available for you.

 

[Neema]

I didn't meant this for you. You shoul feel lucky as I am always available for you.

That means a lot... I know you didn’t mean me...I just found the post relatable since I also like stepping away from people who disturb my peace of mind. It really helps me stay balanced.....