What do you regret more the things you did, or the things you didn’t dare to do?

[Itsme_04]

We often get scared what people might think and so we don't take certain steps or actions which we really wanted to.. And later we regret that we should have dared to do that thing at that point of time
On the other hand sometimes we dare to take certain actions but later regret it because it has now become a reason for people to troll you...
Which regret is more under such circumstances?

 

[Divyazzz]

I prefer the second option

 

[Rasputin_M]

Hello and good evening everyone. Everyone does make bad decisions at times. I have done so as well yet I believe whatever happens, happens for the best. God has a plan for everyone and no one can run away from destiny. One can change it for sure yet there is a time fixed. That's my opinion . God Bless!!! . Salud!!!!

 

[Itsme_04]

I prefer the second option

Time hasn't gone yet... You can still take that decision instead of sitting and regretting about it... And if there's some fear stopping you then you can always share it... sometime strangers can help too hehe

 

[Itsme_04]

Hello and good evening everyone. Everyone does make bad decisions at times. I have done so as well yet I believe whatever happens, happens for the best. God has a plan for everyone and no one can run away from destiny. One can change it for sure yet there is a time fixed. That's my opinion . God Bless!!! . Salud!!!!

Truee... Taking risks sounds more logical.. Thinking about what people might say would not be worth it because everyone has something or the other to say always ... Bad decisions helps you learn and eventually you progress through that phase

 

[Nani2025]

We often get scared what people might think and so we don't take certain steps or actions which we really wanted to.. And later we regret that we should have dared to do that thing at that point of time
On the other hand sometimes we dare to take certain actions but later regret it because it has now become a reason for people to troll you...
Which regret is more under such circumstances?

Absolutely second one.. I have fear

 

[AKKI0]

We often get scared what people might think and so we don't take certain steps or actions which we really wanted to.. And later we regret that we should have dared to do that thing at that point of time
On the other hand sometimes we dare to take certain actions but later regret it because it has now become a reason for people to troll you...
Which regret is more under such circumstances?

Hmmm true!

The regret of missed opportunity usually weighs heavier because we mourn a version of ourselves that never existed, whereas the sting of being trolled eventually fades into a story of having actually lived.

 

[AKKI0]

Hello and good evening everyone. Everyone does make bad decisions at times. I have done so as well yet I believe whatever happens, happens for the best. God has a plan for everyone and no one can run away from destiny. One can change it for sure yet there is a time fixed. That's my opinion . God Bless!!! . Salud!!!!

I agree
God bless you too

 

[Itsme_04]

Absolutely second one.. I have fear

If I may ask what fear stops you ? Is it fear of judgement?

 

[Itsme_04]

Hmmm true!

The regret of missed opportunity usually weighs heavier because we mourn a version of ourselves that never existed, whereas the sting of being trolled eventually fades into a story of having actually lived.

Indeed! The ones who judge are themselves scared to do that thing and so they keep finding flaws in others.. Its actually their fear which they are expressing