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What are we really for?

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Sometimes, I sit and ask myself , what are we actually living for? A man in his prime enjoys his life like a kid who has no financial problems, no health issues, and parents who provide everything. But still, even when he gets everything, he might miss the one thing he actually needs, love. For him, love becomes just money or comfort. That’s what he receives, and that’s what he’s told to understand as love.Later in life, when he really tries to love someone genuinely, it’s never easy. No matter how loyal he is, no matter how much he gives, it just doesn’t work out. It feels like some people are not made for relationships. Misunderstandings, ego clashes, not being able to balance things , it all just breaks down slowly. And somewhere in between, he realizes , he was and is being loved by a lot of people, except the ones he actually loves. Maybe he just can’t manage people’s mindset or psychology the way he wishes he could.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
 
RedFlag said:
Sometimes, I sit and ask myself , what are we actually living for? A man in his prime enjoys his life like a kid who has no financial problems, no health issues, and parents who provide everything. But still, even when he gets everything, he might miss the one thing he actually needs, love. For him, love becomes just money or comfort. That’s what he receives, and that’s what he’s told to understand as love.Later in life, when he really tries to love someone genuinely, it’s never easy. No matter how loyal he is, no matter how much he gives, it just doesn’t work out. It feels like some people are not made for relationships. Misunderstandings, ego clashes, not being able to balance things , it all just breaks down slowly. And somewhere in between, he realizes , he was and is being loved by a lot of people, except the ones he actually loves. Maybe he just can’t manage people’s mindset or psychology the way he wishes he could.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
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Heartfelt reflections that echo universal truths .
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RedFlag said:
Sometimes, I sit and ask myself , what are we actually living for? A man in his prime enjoys his life like a kid who has no financial problems, no health issues, and parents who provide everything. But still, even when he gets everything, he might miss the one thing he actually needs, love. For him, love becomes just money or comfort. That’s what he receives, and that’s what he’s told to understand as love.Later in life, when he really tries to love someone genuinely, it’s never easy. No matter how loyal he is, no matter how much he gives, it just doesn’t work out. It feels like some people are not made for relationships. Misunderstandings, ego clashes, not being able to balance things , it all just breaks down slowly. And somewhere in between, he realizes , he was and is being loved by a lot of people, except the ones he actually loves. Maybe he just can’t manage people’s mindset or psychology the way he wishes he could.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
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Well said. At the end, peace is what we’re all really searching for!
 
RedFlag said:
Sometimes, I sit and ask myself , what are we actually living for? A man in his prime enjoys his life like a kid who has no financial problems, no health issues, and parents who provide everything. But still, even when he gets everything, he might miss the one thing he actually needs, love. For him, love becomes just money or comfort. That’s what he receives, and that’s what he’s told to understand as love.Later in life, when he really tries to love someone genuinely, it’s never easy. No matter how loyal he is, no matter how much he gives, it just doesn’t work out. It feels like some people are not made for relationships. Misunderstandings, ego clashes, not being able to balance things , it all just breaks down slowly. And somewhere in between, he realizes , he was and is being loved by a lot of people, except the ones he actually loves. Maybe he just can’t manage people’s mindset or psychology the way he wishes he could.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
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What hurts more is explaining ppl howmuch we love nd long for them, howmuch they mean to us, nd still seeing them being blind to us, treating us like we don't matter sometimes they act like we don't even exist. We just realise nd accept tht we have no choice but to keep all these Storms inside us and suffer alone in silence with lot of unanswered questions ~ is this what love and loyalty do to us? Are we cursed to be a wrong person in their life? Are we unworthy of getting even the bare minimum? If they don't love us, why did they comfort us wth lies?
There can be lot of ppl to talk to nd laugh with. But we could find peace in only one person. Even in our favourite place surrounded by our fav ppl, listening to our fav music, every blood cells of us yearns to find our fav person in everything we see.
The worst part is when we find it impossible to move on from them; no matter how much they hurt us, letting them go feels like letting our soul burn alive
In the end all tht remains is our wounded self filled wth tons of unseen, unheard, unvalued things nd a pillow to sob on.

But boy, u may lose everything u love, but love will find u in another way.
There are hearts tht genuinely worry about ur well-being nd tremble at the weight of ur sadness(even if they're not the ones u want). Hope u'll find peace soon, so soon
 
RedFlag said:
Sometimes, I sit and ask myself , what are we actually living for? A man in his prime enjoys his life like a kid who has no financial problems, no health issues, and parents who provide everything. But still, even when he gets everything, he might miss the one thing he actually needs, love. For him, love becomes just money or comfort. That’s what he receives, and that’s what he’s told to understand as love.Later in life, when he really tries to love someone genuinely, it’s never easy. No matter how loyal he is, no matter how much he gives, it just doesn’t work out. It feels like some people are not made for relationships. Misunderstandings, ego clashes, not being able to balance things , it all just breaks down slowly. And somewhere in between, he realizes , he was and is being loved by a lot of people, except the ones he actually loves. Maybe he just can’t manage people’s mindset or psychology the way he wishes he could.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
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It hurts when you have feelings for someone but you're not special to them... You're just an option, a side chick. It's painful to see the person you're longing to talk to, craving their hug and eager to share your thoughts with them, but they're too busy consoling someone else....That's where you lose your peace!!. Time is powerful ...Indeed!!!!it heals wounds, but when you scratch them again, they start bleeding...However I believe that if someone truly deserves love, they'll find it... Love will discover them someday, somewhere, in an unexpected moment.....All you have to do is wait ig...Well I wish you peace and happiness in your life. Don't let yourself suffer.....Sending you positive vibes and a big hug...
 
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It hurts when you have feelings for someone but you're not special to them... You're just an option, a side chick. It's painful to see the person you're longing to talk to, craving their hug and eager to share your thoughts with them, but they're too busy consoling someone else....That's where you lose your peace!!. Time is powerful ...Indeed!!!!it heals wounds, but when you scratch them again, they start bleeding...However I believe that if someone truly deserves love, they'll find it... Love will discover them someday, somewhere, in an unexpected moment.....All you have to do is wait ig...Well I wish you peace and happiness in your life. Don't let yourself suffer.....Sending you positive vibes and a big hug...
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Ayyo its not about relationships ,
 
RedFlag said:
Sometimes, I sit and ask myself , what are we actually living for? A man in his prime enjoys his life like a kid who has no financial problems, no health issues, and parents who provide everything. But still, even when he gets everything, he might miss the one thing he actually needs, love. For him, love becomes just money or comfort. That’s what he receives, and that’s what he’s told to understand as love.Later in life, when he really tries to love someone genuinely, it’s never easy. No matter how loyal he is, no matter how much he gives, it just doesn’t work out. It feels like some people are not made for relationships. Misunderstandings, ego clashes, not being able to balance things , it all just breaks down slowly. And somewhere in between, he realizes , he was and is being loved by a lot of people, except the ones he actually loves. Maybe he just can’t manage people’s mindset or psychology the way he wishes he could.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
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Hello and good evening mate. A very heartfelt post for sure. It seems you have been hurting somewhere deep inside hence this post ( though I certainly hope not ). Anyways life is never what we expect or how we want it to be. Everyone has plans , dreams , visions and hopes but seldom they all get fulfilled. Anyways cheer up and look ahead, I am sure God has a better plan for you and everyone as well. Take care and stay safe. Cheers!!!
 
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