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Virtual Relationship....!!
- Thread starter SooriyaÑ
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Listuuu perusu ok thanee
@SooriyaÑ Good morning Bro. .Did you eat? Its always nice talking to you. Hope you are well. Really missed you.For a long time, I've wanted to write about it....
Not to judge anyone... But to explore how a few typed words can make us believe we've truly known someone...
Maybe one day, when time permits, I'll write the complete story...
Until then...
Stay connected to people....
not just their messages..!
Virtual Relationship..!!!
Just because someone sends
"Good Morning"...
doesn't mean they're a good person...!
Just because they ask..."Did you eat?" doesn't mean they genuinely care...!
"Miss you..." "Love you..." "Forever..."
These are just words...
They take only a few seconds to type...!
But understanding someone's character, attitude, respect, patience, ego, responsibility, and real personality takes months... sometimes even years...!
Today... many people don't fall in love with a person....
They fall in love with the version that exists inside a chat box...!
Then one day...
They become....
Instagram User...!
No profile picture...
No replies.. No calls...
Not even a goodbye...!
And suddenly our status and stories are be like...
"Love is Pain."
Sad quotes...
Depression.
Overthinking.
But here's the real question...
Were you in love with that person...
Or were you in love with the words they typed?
#VirtualRelationship
And to be honest I have few friends here like you who always makes me feel , I am on top of the world having them in my life.
My humble request not to write such threads. Such threads makes me think , dreams are good but for few period of time. And I am sure , I am not alone here in this zozo virtual world, And ,Wont hesitate to add one naked reality. In my many years around here, its hard to count on my fingers , 2 souls who always found in their bond , more then Romeo Juliet , Siri-Farhad, Laila-Majnu, Heer-Ranza disappeared over the time like they dont even know each other. Its not about all as you also mentioned in your thread. But most of them.
Your Thread is a profound reminder that we often fall for the comfort of a screen rather than the reality of a human being. It takes courage to step out of the chat box and demand real, tangible connection.
When tone and presence are missing, our hearts naturally fill in the blanks with who we hope someone is, making idealization effortless. True intimacy requires real world ground because while words can be crafted in seconds, character can only be proven over time.
Virtual chemistry is easy to build, but genuine intent is always proven through real-life effort and consistent openness.
Protecting your heart until someone's actions match their words isn't being overly cautious ,as you said ,it's standard emotional self-respect. Never trade actual presence for a screen full of promises.
True kindness requires emotional honesty that leads someone on through constant intimacy while knowing you won't reciprocate isn't care, it's quiet cruelty.
Clear boundaries might cause a temporary sting, but they prevent the long, lingering heartbreak of a promise you never intended to keep.
Respecting someone's heart means ensuring your warmth is never mistaken for a future you aren't willing to build with them.
I know its hard to be honest in virtual world. But your efforts would give courage to many who still not aware of this universal truth. Ty for your efforts. Wonderful writing. Ty for sharing. Keep it up , bro.
It’s not just about virtual love; people form all kinds of bonds online as brothers, sisters, or close friends. But over time, you realize that none of it is truly real. Virtual relationships are basically just a shadow, and unlike the shade of a tree, this shadow can't protect or help you in real life. People online rarely care about you genuinely ... they just show up when they need emotional healing or someone to talk to it’s honestly just a 'use and throw deal. I spent three years overthinking these connections, treating online brothers and friends as real family, only to learn the hard way that when actual trouble hits, no one stands by you. It took a lot of hurt, but I’ve finally accepted the reality....virtual is virtual, real is real, and putting your heart into online relationships is just a waste of time.
Sharing a reflection based on my virtual experience. not directed at anyone specific
Adei paiyyaa.. Naan sonnadhum idhu thaan... Oruthar oda real life paakatha varaikum.. Avanga kitta real emotions theriyadhu... People here often satisfy with the sugarcoated words.. Reality nu varappa thaan adhu unmaya illaya nu theriyum.. Avanga words ellam words oda nikkudhaa nu.. Yaarayum virtual vachu judge panna koodathu in both ways good or bad nu until avanga reality theriyura varaikum..
Akshayakki
Wellknown Ace
Words can make us feel loved, but only actions prove that love is real. Never fall for the chat fall for the character..........For a long time, I've wanted to write about it....
Not to judge anyone... But to explore how a few typed words can make us believe we've truly known someone...
Maybe one day, when time permits, I'll write the complete story...
Until then...
Stay connected to people....
not just their messages..!
Virtual Relationship..!!!
Just because someone sends
"Good Morning
doesn't mean they're a good person...!
Just because they ask..."Did you eat?" doesn't mean they genuinely care...!
"Miss you..." "Love you..." "Forever..."
These are just words...
They take only a few seconds to type...!
But understanding someone's character, attitude, respect, patience, ego, responsibility, and real personality takes months... sometimes even years...!
Today... many people don't fall in love with a person....
They fall in love with the version that exists inside a chat box...!
Then one day...
They become....
Instagram User...!
No profile picture...
No replies.. No calls...
Not even a goodbye...!
And suddenly our status and stories are be like...
"Love is Pain."
Sad quotes...
Depression.
Overthinking.
But here's the real question...
Were you in love with that person...
Or were you in love with the words they typed?
#VirtualRelationship