I want to say this once and for all — loud and clear.
I don't know if every user here feels the same, but I’ve been silently going through a weird and exhausting situation for years now. And enough is enough.
Stop dragging me into things I have no part in.
Don't come blaming me saying, “Your tammullu did this,” “Your chellelu did that,” “Your friend caused this.”
No. I am not responsible for anyone else's actions.
I’m not guiding them, I’m not provoking them, and they’re definitely not taking my permission or blessings before doing anything.
So please, stop pointing fingers at me for what others choose to do.
I am only accountable for my own words and actions.
If I go wrong, tell me directly — I’ll own up, change, and even apologise if needed. But don’t hold me hostage for someone else’s mistakes.
And to be clear — I’m not adopting anyone here, nor am I in contact with anyone outside of this space.
When your friendships grow in private messages, whispers, or wall posts — no one thinks of me.
But the moment there’s a fight or fallout, suddenly they become my tammullu, my chellellu, my gang.
Convenient, isn’t it?
I’m done with this blame game.
And one more thing —
I came to ZoZo for my own joy, my peace, and my space and pleasure
Not to pamper or entertain anyone.
Let me be.
Cheers!!
I don't know if every user here feels the same, but I’ve been silently going through a weird and exhausting situation for years now. And enough is enough.
Stop dragging me into things I have no part in.
Don't come blaming me saying, “Your tammullu did this,” “Your chellelu did that,” “Your friend caused this.”
No. I am not responsible for anyone else's actions.
I’m not guiding them, I’m not provoking them, and they’re definitely not taking my permission or blessings before doing anything.
So please, stop pointing fingers at me for what others choose to do.
I am only accountable for my own words and actions.
If I go wrong, tell me directly — I’ll own up, change, and even apologise if needed. But don’t hold me hostage for someone else’s mistakes.
And to be clear — I’m not adopting anyone here, nor am I in contact with anyone outside of this space.
When your friendships grow in private messages, whispers, or wall posts — no one thinks of me.
But the moment there’s a fight or fallout, suddenly they become my tammullu, my chellellu, my gang.
Convenient, isn’t it?
I’m done with this blame game.
And one more thing —
I came to ZoZo for my own joy, my peace, and my space and pleasure
Not to pamper or entertain anyone.
Let me be.
Cheers!!
