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Hard to love??? (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤

Dom55 said:
Love is the feeling that teaches us way of living. Its wonderful feeling and to get it one has to take whatever risk necessary. Its worth to be in love after lots of struggle , differences ,little fights. We are human means being imperfect, uncertain , ever evolving. We often see love as final destination , to find someone and hold on to it. The way life is a journey , if you take love same way , you wont have any problem facing all hurdles that are reason against love. Some people fears love is cruel but no, its not the case. Love is honest . We are taught to hide where as love tells us to reveal truth .If you continue wearing mask , love is not for you. :cool:
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Absolutely! Love is a journey, not a destination. Being honest and vulnerable is key
 
Dom55 said:
Yes you are right , I am very brave person. But that doesnt mean I would accept , you dont have gutts. You have gutts to sell comb to Anupam Kher. Keeps enough distance. :smoking::cool:
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Ehhh I was selling adivasi tel of zozo not comb hahhaha
 
✧OppsyDaizy✧ said:
Is it really too hard to love, or are we just expecting too much from each other? Sometimes I feel like we're all just trying to find that perfect connection, but it's like chasing a mirage. We get hurt, we get disappointed, and we start to wonder if it's all worth it. But then I think about the moments that make it all worth fighting for - the laughter, the late-night conversations, the feeling of being truly seen. So, is it too hard to love, or are we just not willing to take the risk?

I mean, think about it - we're all just trying to navigate our own emotions, our own baggage, and then we throw another person into the mix. It's like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded. And yet, when it works, it's like everything else just fades away. The struggles, the doubts, the fears... they're all still there, but they're worth it because of the way we feel when we're with the person we love.

So, maybe the question isn't 'is it too hard to love?' but rather 'are we willing to be vulnerable, to take the leap, to risk getting hurt?' Because if we're not, then maybe we're missing out on something truly amazing. And if we are... well, then maybe the real question is, 'are we ready for what love really means?'
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Pyar ko samjh na itna muskil bhi nhi hai agar sache dil se samjhna chaho ki pyar kya hai or q hai to 1 din me samjh jaoge ...

Or agar na samjhne ka man ho to puri jindagi bit jaigi phir bhi samjh na paoge ..

Is baat pe ek kabir das ji ka doha yaad aaiya .

Pothi padhi padhi jag mua pandit bhaiya na koi dhai akchar prem ke padhe so pandit hoi✨
 
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✧OppsyDaizy✧ said:
Is it really too hard to love, or are we just expecting too much from each other? Sometimes I feel like we're all just trying to find that perfect connection, but it's like chasing a mirage. We get hurt, we get disappointed, and we start to wonder if it's all worth it. But then I think about the moments that make it all worth fighting for - the laughter, the late-night conversations, the feeling of being truly seen. So, is it too hard to love, or are we just not willing to take the risk?

I mean, think about it - we're all just trying to navigate our own emotions, our own baggage, and then we throw another person into the mix. It's like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded. And yet, when it works, it's like everything else just fades away. The struggles, the doubts, the fears... they're all still there, but they're worth it because of the way we feel when we're with the person we love.

So, maybe the question isn't 'is it too hard to love?' but rather 'are we willing to be vulnerable, to take the leap, to risk getting hurt?' Because if we're not, then maybe we're missing out on something truly amazing. And if we are... well, then maybe the real question is, 'are we ready for what love really means?'
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that feelings u hv mentioned are awesome, yes we should take that risk of being vulnerable, and yes you will find out "is it a perfect match or not" just by noticing their actions their behaviours how he/she talk with you and with others and ofc, in ur absense how she/he behaves.

as per my experience, i never got a perfect match, in start they seems, but later on i found out it wasnt.

the last girl i had in my life was just perfect in any condition, caring, apologising, respecting etc.

but i donno what was going in her mind n life, she just became like i am invisible to her.

though whatever thing she doesnt like abt me, can be discussed and sorted out, can be ruled out for future.

but she just stopped.

so, i am agree to be vulnerable, because those days while we were happy, were just unfogetabble, i never was this much happy in my life like those days...
 
Honey bunch said:
You know, I have thought about this a lot... and I don’t think love is too hard.

I think We just expect it to be easy — like it should fall into place without effort.

But the truth is, love takes courage. It means choosing someone even when it’s messy, even when we’re carrying our own baggage.

For Me, love is about truly seeing someone and letting them see Me — no filters, no pretending. That’s scary. But it’s also beautiful.

I believe the real question isn’t whether love is too hard... it’s whether we are willing to risk being hurt for something that could be amazing.

And honestly? I think I am.
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i agree with carrying our own baggage par
 
✧OppsyDaizy✧ said:
Is it really too hard to love, or are we just expecting too much from each other? Sometimes I feel like we're all just trying to find that perfect connection, but it's like chasing a mirage. We get hurt, we get disappointed, and we start to wonder if it's all worth it. But then I think about the moments that make it all worth fighting for - the laughter, the late-night conversations, the feeling of being truly seen. So, is it too hard to love, or are we just not willing to take the risk?

I mean, think about it - we're all just trying to navigate our own emotions, our own baggage, and then we throw another person into the mix. It's like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded. And yet, when it works, it's like everything else just fades away. The struggles, the doubts, the fears... they're all still there, but they're worth it because of the way we feel when we're with the person we love.

So, maybe the question isn't 'is it too hard to love?' but rather 'are we willing to be vulnerable, to take the leap, to risk getting hurt?' Because if we're not, then maybe we're missing out on something truly amazing. And if we are... well, then maybe the real question is, 'are we ready for what love really means?'
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Beautifully said... Maybe love was never meant to be easy — just worth it. It’s not about perfection, it’s about presence. About choosing each other even on the tough days. And yes, vulnerability is the bridge... without it, we only touch the surface, never the soul..!
 
LoveYouTwiceAiwain said:
that feelings u hv mentioned are awesome, yes we should take that risk of being vulnerable, and yes you will find out "is it a perfect match or not" just by noticing their actions their behaviours how he/she talk with you and with others and ofc, in ur absense how she/he behaves.

as per my experience, i never got a perfect match, in start they seems, but later on i found out it wasnt.

the last girl i had in my life was just perfect in any condition, caring, apologising, respecting etc.

but i donno what was going in her mind n life, she just became like i am invisible to her.

though whatever thing she doesnt like abt me, can be discussed and sorted out, can be ruled out for future.

but she just stopped.

so, i am agree to be vulnerable, because those days while we were happy, were just unfogetabble, i never was this much happy in my life like those days...
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Indeed....I can relate with what you have said above
 
✧OppsyDaizy✧ said:
Is it really too hard to love, or are we just expecting too much from each other? Sometimes I feel like we're all just trying to find that perfect connection, but it's like chasing a mirage. We get hurt, we get disappointed, and we start to wonder if it's all worth it. But then I think about the moments that make it all worth fighting for - the laughter, the late-night conversations, the feeling of being truly seen. So, is it too hard to love, or are we just not willing to take the risk?

I mean, think about it - we're all just trying to navigate our own emotions, our own baggage, and then we throw another person into the mix. It's like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded. And yet, when it works, it's like everything else just fades away. The struggles, the doubts, the fears... they're all still there, but they're worth it because of the way we feel when we're with the person we love.

So, maybe the question isn't 'is it too hard to love?' but rather 'are we willing to be vulnerable, to take the leap, to risk getting hurt?' Because if we're not, then maybe we're missing out on something truly amazing. And if we are... well, then maybe the real question is, 'are we ready for what love really means?'
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"You just put into words what so many of us feel but can’t express. Love isn’t really too hard — it’s just real, raw, and sometimes messy. We expect magic, but forget that even magic takes work, patience, and a little bit of pain. I think you're right... it’s not about whether love is hard, it’s about whether we’re brave enough to be open, to be seen, and to love despite the risk. Maybe that’s where the real beauty lies — in choosing love, even when it scares us."
 
✧OppsyDaizy✧ said:
Is it really too hard to love, or are we just expecting too much from each other? Sometimes I feel like we're all just trying to find that perfect connection, but it's like chasing a mirage. We get hurt, we get disappointed, and we start to wonder if it's all worth it. But then I think about the moments that make it all worth fighting for - the laughter, the late-night conversations, the feeling of being truly seen. So, is it too hard to love, or are we just not willing to take the risk?

I mean, think about it - we're all just trying to navigate our own emotions, our own baggage, and then we throw another person into the mix. It's like trying to solve a puzzle blindfolded. And yet, when it works, it's like everything else just fades away. The struggles, the doubts, the fears... they're all still there, but they're worth it because of the way we feel when we're with the person we love.

So, maybe the question isn't 'is it too hard to love?' but rather 'are we willing to be vulnerable, to take the leap, to risk getting hurt?' Because if we're not, then maybe we're missing out on something truly amazing. And if we are... well, then maybe the real question is, 'are we ready for what love really means?'
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Such a thoughtful and raw exploration of love's true nature. You've hit on the fundamental truth: it's not about hardness, but our willingness to leap into vulnerability for something truly amazing.
Awesome Intelligence™​
 
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