It's just my opinion but I really think sometimes the real problem is that you don't have a good friend circle to help you out . Someone who has little sense who can give you a reality check . Sometimes we all fall for the virtual world and get confused with oru IRL , we would start spoiling our real lyf for someone out here . The one thing I have noticed is that if you have a great friend circle inside or outside you won't be affected that much by a single person ofc you would be affected but not in a deep way but when you don't have anyone and u push ur whole to a person then if the person leaves you would be done so alone with love lust and affairs try to make good friendships too it may help you all ( nb: frnds nn paraja opposite gender matram alla same gender anelum friendship avam , but ik it's hard to get )
