Desire Doesn’t Cancel Decency.

[criss cross]

Disclaimer : This isn’t about dating, romance, or exclusivity.
It’s about human connection — across all genders and dynamics.


To everyone hiding behind lines like:
“Don’t get attached”
“It’s just casual”
“It’s Zozo _ don't take it seriously”
Be honest for once —
are you actually emotionless, or are you just scared of accountability?


Yes, Zozo is a sexting site .. but _ NO _ that doesn’t turn people into disposable content.
Being here doesn’t magically erase empathy, honesty, or basic human decency. At least NOT for me.


I believe in real connections — even if they’re temporary.
No, it doesn’t have to turn into anything serious.

But fgs be real or just don’t engage at all . Period.

And spare me the “ Nobody owes anyone anything ” speech okayy
You still want attention.
You still want validation.
You still want someone present, responsive, invested in you lyk hell —
just without having to be responsible for how you treat them .. I mean Audacity.

And let’s be fucking honest ..
Most of you guyss are already attached — Just not the person u r talking to.
You have your Favorites . Emotional safety nets (nice n tbh nothing is wrong in that )
Yet you still seek attention, validation, and excitement elsewhere — while calling it Casual.. so you don’t have to be honest n transparent.

If you want fuck-and-forget , say it.
If you want zero emotional awareness , say it.

Put it in the first message:

“I want attention without responsibility.”

See only this much easy ..
At least then .. people can opt out.

Saying “Zozo isn’t a place to trust people” doesn’t excuse lying, manipulating, ghosting, or treating others as disposable.

Casual isn’t careless.
Sexting isn't soulless
And horny isn't moral loophole

Not everyone wants love. Fine.

Even I’m not here for all that " La la la la love and forever.”
But I refuse to be fake, performative, or dishonest.

So be clear:
Are you here for mutual and honest fun—
or just to consume people and disappear without guilt?

And listen..
stop shaming people for feeling.
Feeling isn’t weakness.
Using people _ and calling it casual — is.

Being on a sexting site doesn’t erase humanity.
At least not mine.

Have a good day ahead

Well said. Casual doesn’t mean careless, and being on Zozo doesn’t cancel basic decency. Honesty upfront saves everyone time and damage. Feeling isn’t the problem—using people and hiding behind labels is. Respect and clarity should be the bare minimum.

 

[zhou]

I think you misunderstood my post.
I m not judging people for being on a different track .. I m just calling out lack of transparency.
There s a difference between “we want different things” and “I won’t be honest about what I want.”
I’m not criticizing anyone for feeling differently.
My post isn’t about forcing emotions — it’s about Honesty nd Clarity.

I got what u meant my comment was for the last part of ur post

 

[LavaLush]

When I talk about honesty .. I mean only one thing: being clear about how you want things with the person you’re interacting with ... nothing else.
I never said—and would never expect—that someone shouldn’t explore others .. this is a space built on options, attraction, and variety and I m not against that at all.
What Is not acceptable is lying, manipulating, or gaslighting. If you’re doing your thing, say it ..then I decide if I’m okay staying or not. Simple.
And no .. people don’t usually stay once they clearly see the signals .. adults read actions and if someone stays ..then it's clearly their choice.
My idea of honesty has nothing to do with exclusivity—it’s about not lying, not manipulating, not gaslighting.. that's it .
And respect isn’t optional .. Bare minimum tbh
That’s not a “platform issue,” that’s a character issue.
Casual doesn’t mean careless, and it sure as hell doesn’t excuse disrespect.
If that’s too much to ask, that tells me everything I need to know.

Okie Baby first lemme ask u one thing what does being honest actually mean to u here?Does it mean that when you're talking to someone, where ur emotions get involved, that person should stop exploring others and focus only on u? Is that what we're calling honesty on a sext chat site?Let's be honest fr, This space exists bcz people want options, attraction, and variety and they will explore them. That's human nature. Expecting most people here to limit themselves emotionally or sexually is unrealistic... Not bcz it's wrong, but bcz this is exactly why they're here... Human nature leans toward exploration, specially when temptation and variety are right in front of u and it's easily available.... Expecting most people here to emotionally or sexually limit themselves is unrealistic... Not bcz it's wrong, but bcz this is exactly why they're here...Now if by honesty u mean not lying, not manipulating, not intentionally playing with someone:s emotions, I agree ... that behavior is wrong anywhere. But both people are adults. If one person's feelings get involved while the other person is here to play, that imbalance doesn't happen by accident. One person is choosing to stay despite the signals.(I shouldn't hv said that if it's related to our real life but over here, I'll... Ofc I'm not supporting them but protecting myself)And ya i'm not blaming the platform cuz Zozo simply provides the space, how people behave is their choice.. So the problem is some People . And responsibility doesn't lie only with the person who trusts. But expecting emotional responsibility or genuine respect from strangers( matter how many time u guys talk or how many things U know but still count as a stranger)in a space where objectification is common is also unrealistic...Casual doesn't mean careless, agreed... but it also doesn't magically create integrity or sincerity... Basic decency is the maximum expectation here, not heartfelt respect. If someone offers more, great ... but that's the exception, not the rule. So yes have boundaries... Read actions, not thr so called sugar coating words. Protect urself. Bcz in a space like this, awareness matters more than expectations, and self-protection matters more than hoping someone else will change....

One more thing— you are my girlfriend .. but still
Did I ever stop you from exploring?
From giving kisses?
Even when I get a little jealous or hurt sometimes, I still never stopped you.
Because I know this place is about exploring, not about commitment ceremonies

A little jealousy is just my human side, and you exploring is the nature of this platform. Both can exist at the same time
Just be honest—that’s all I ask.
I’ll handle my emotions

 

[Luminoussss]

Disclaimer : This isn’t about dating, romance, or exclusivity.
It’s about human connection — across all genders and dynamics.


To everyone hiding behind lines like:
“Don’t get attached”
“It’s just casual”
“It’s Zozo _ don't take it seriously”
Be honest for once —
are you actually emotionless, or are you just scared of accountability?


Yes, Zozo is a sexting site .. but _ NO _ that doesn’t turn people into disposable content.
Being here doesn’t magically erase empathy, honesty, or basic human decency. At least NOT for me.


I believe in real connections — even if they’re temporary.
No, it doesn’t have to turn into anything serious.

But fgs be real or just don’t engage at all . Period.

And spare me the “ Nobody owes anyone anything ” speech okayy
You still want attention.
You still want validation.
You still want someone present, responsive, invested in you lyk hell —
just without having to be responsible for how you treat them .. I mean Audacity.

And let’s be fucking honest ..
Most of you guyss are already attached — Just not the person u r talking to.
You have your Favorites . Emotional safety nets (nice n tbh nothing is wrong in that )
Yet you still seek attention, validation, and excitement elsewhere — while calling it Casual.. so you don’t have to be honest n transparent.

If you want fuck-and-forget , say it.
If you want zero emotional awareness , say it.

Put it in the first message:

“I want attention without responsibility.”

See only this much easy ..
At least then .. people can opt out.

Saying “Zozo isn’t a place to trust people” doesn’t excuse lying, manipulating, ghosting, or treating others as disposable.

Casual isn’t careless.
Sexting isn't soulless
And horny isn't moral loophole

Not everyone wants love. Fine.

Even I’m not here for all that " La la la la love and forever.”
But I refuse to be fake, performative, or dishonest.

So be clear:
Are you here for mutual and honest fun—
or just to consume people and disappear without guilt?

And listen..
stop shaming people for feeling.
Feeling isn’t weakness.
Using people _ and calling it casual — is.

Being on a sexting site doesn’t erase humanity.
At least not mine.

Have a good day ahead

Ya right like i also came here for like making friends and a good friendship i don't want to do all that sexting stufff and shit ik it's an sexting site but I'm not here for that thing and i guess though people are here from so much time that now everyone have their people and favourite people that they come and like don't think anything and just start their therapy means talking ya for me its an therapy as i also have my favorites here and they are Layla, whiskey they are my favourite an my safe spot like i can share anything with them bcs i trust them and they also trust me so they are all my emotions

 

[Dreambig]

Glad that u found it relevant and worth endorsing.
But for the record _ this post is not based on any painful personal experience ..this is only my observations and principles I believe in.
Just a reflection on how “casual” spaces often confuse lack of accountability with freedom that's it .. nothing else.

Fully understood, thank you.