Well put bro. Let me clarify more about 'intelligence'. People often get confused between intelligence and intellect. In spirituality, intelligence means not iq, or any problem solving skills or worldly knowledge. In spirituality, 'intelligence' means the wisdom of pure self, i.e 'Atma'. One who knows he/she is not their body, or mind and one who knows that his/her emotions are mere consequence of chemical reaction in their brain, and thus attempt to find the truth (truth is liberation from ego, beyond body mind dimension), then only he / she is intelligent. Sadly, we misconstrue emotions, attachment, loyalty as 'love' but they are not. Love is beyond them. Emotions are seen in animals also. Our definition of 'love' is petty animalistic. Emotions are not love, they are mere bodily reactions. We are beyond our body, we are higher consciousness, why not to utilize it in higher pursuit and help our lovers to pursue the same? The very definition of love is 'liberating one's ego, setting others free, unfettering others' bondages'. When we can do this, only then we can truly love others, otherwise 'love' will remain mere game of emotions, i.e, attachment, possessiveness, loyalty, expectations and all shits.
*A_AICS
