Adulting Is Attractive!

[Anshhi]

Yeahh Responsibly Matters More Than Having a Romantic Life>3

 

[Ⲕⲉⲛⲛⲉⲧⲏ]

Good Day!
Beautifully said just feel like some ‘chapters’ shouldn’t take a lifetime to unlock… especially the basic ones .

Groth does happen in phases and people definitely evolve with time, no doubt about that. But at the same time, I feel basic responsibility shouldn’t be treated like some ‘future achievement’ or ‘later chapter unlock’. It’s more like the foundation everything else is built on, not an upgrade you install later.

Potential is cute, I really do agree with that part , but at some point, reality matters more than potential. Because no one really lives in ‘future version of you’, they deal with who you are right now yaa!

So yeah growth is beautiful… growth is fine, but basics shouldn’t be a future feature—they should already be installed

I think we’re blending two different layers.
Washing plates, doing laundry, making the bed
that’s self-discipline.
Clean habits, good signs… agreed.
But responsibility is a different league...
it’s how someone shows up when things actually depend on them.
Because discipline can belong to a boy or a man.
But responsibility?
That’s earned... tested under pressure, not routine.
So those basics are indicators… not the definition.
At the end of the day...
are you choosing someone who keeps things neat…
or someone who can hold things together when life isn’t?

 

[Rasputin_M]

before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!

Hello and good evening Ms. . Well said , girls/women are not obliged for all this. This is old school of thought unfortunately due to the patriarchal system we have followed. But I am glad women are raising their voice and I really appreciate your posts about women power. At the same time I would like to add one thing , if the guy is not doing it , not worth it. Relations are like to cogs in the same machine, if one does not work it's a stand still. Sorry Ms. not trying to kill your vibe. God Bless!!!. Cheers!!!

 

[Ur_babu]

before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!

Okay teacher

 

[Atharv]

Dear @winee Thant was a lovely post by the way.
Dear @Kenneth appreciate for posting your opinion as well.
Honestly this is the kind of conversations and opinions that makes FORUM worth visiting.

Feels like both of you are talking about 2 sides of same COIN.
1 Foundation (Basic Discipline)
2 Weight bearing structure (Real Responsibility under pressure)
I wouldn't say I support one person or the other.......Instead accept both of your opinions as
Basics show readiness/Growth shows direction.

One’s saying ...... be functional on a random Tuesday,
the other’s saying ..... be reliable when life hits Friday night mode.

Lowkey… both matter.
Because no one wants to raise a man…
But also no one wants a perfectly neat guy who crashes when life gets messy.

P.S : Not gonna lie, this thread is way more interesting than the usual good morning quotes...oops sorry posts.
Good to see people actually discussing something real here for once.

Not taking sides, Just taking notes,
Atharv.