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✨ Why Do Women Tear Each Other Down Instead of Lifting Each Other Up?

ukgirl said:
Babe, you said it all so perfectly — and I felt every word. It’s sad how some people can’t handle someone else’s light, so they try to dim it instead. They act innocent in front, stab from behind, and pretend we don’t see it — but trust me, we do. We just choose silence, hoping they’ll grow… but they rarely do.
Some people don’t come to support — they come to feed off your joy, like emotional parasites, draining others because they have nothing real of their own. They hate to see you happy because it reminds them of everything they’re lacking.

Fake friendship isn’t loyalty — it’s a ticking time bomb.
The moment they turn bitter, they spill what was once sacred, forgetting that true friends protect, not expose.

As you said, “Don’t hate me because I’m fabulous — hate me because I’m rising while you’re stuck in your mess.”
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Heheh thank you babe yeahhh exactly....;)still we can handle this I know we are strong enough to show their real face....uhuu uhuu and I believe in karma when karma hits people get what they wants for others....
 
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ukgirl said:
It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —
  • Jealous comments.
  • Passive-aggressive digs.
  • Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.
  • Is it insecurity?
    Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
    Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:
  • Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
  • Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
  • Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
  • Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:
  • A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
  • Her body is not an invitation.
  • Her success is not your competition.
  • And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.
It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.
  • Stop tearing each other down.
  • And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
  • Defend her when she’s not around.
  • Clap when she wins.
If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?
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Beautifully said!:inlove:
Let's rise together & fix each other's crowns ❤️ Uplifting each other, breaking barriers, and celebrating successes together!

Empowering women,
empowering humanity ...!!! :fingercross:

Together we rise ..✨❤️
 
jasminee said:
Heheh thank you babe yeahhh exactly....;)still we can handle this I know we are strong enough to show their real face....uhuu uhuu and I believe in karma when karma hits people get what they wants for others....
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Absolutely! I believe in karma too — People who try to bring others down eventually trip over the traps they set for someone else.
We don’t need to expose them —Their true face always shows… all in good time. We’ll just stay focused and stand tall in the meanwhile.
 
Absolutely agree with every word you've written, @ukgirl This post hits deep because it’s something we witness far too often—online and offline. Women tearing each other down is not just a reflection of personal insecurity, but also of a system that conditioned us to view each other as threats instead of allies.

We need to remember: empowered women empower women. Uplifting each other doesn’t cost a thing, but the impact is priceless. When one woman rises, she creates space for others to rise too. Let’s build a culture of genuine support, where we celebrate each other’s wins, defend one another’s dignity, and create safe spaces that nurture, not break.

It’s high time we stop competing and start connecting. We rise higher when we rise together. ✨
 
rustyrose said:
Absolutely agree with every word you've written, @ukgirl This post hits deep because it’s something we witness far too often—online and offline. Women tearing each other down is not just a reflection of personal insecurity, but also of a system that conditioned us to view each other as threats instead of allies.

We need to remember: empowered women empower women. Uplifting each other doesn’t cost a thing, but the impact is priceless. When one woman rises, she creates space for others to rise too. Let’s build a culture of genuine support, where we celebrate each other’s wins, defend one another’s dignity, and create safe spaces that nurture, not break.

It’s high time we stop competing and start connecting. We rise higher when we rise together. ✨
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ukgirl said:
It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —
  • Jealous comments.
  • Passive-aggressive digs.
  • Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.
  • Is it insecurity?
    Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
    Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:
  • Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
  • Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
  • Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
  • Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:
  • A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
  • Her body is not an invitation.
  • Her success is not your competition.
  • And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.
It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.
  • Stop tearing each other down.
  • And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
  • Defend her when she’s not around.
  • Clap when she wins.
If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?
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I really agree with that men support point ,If we see the society everyone want entertainment these days for them the fights ,misunderstanding , are the favorite source of entertainment in case of man , as a man i can say some men really enjoy this type of stuffs like they love to enjoy that matter for their entertainment,i still don't get is it really funny for people to fuel these type of things?
I dunno how can they enjoy this rather than stopping that thing there,i don't know some people agree with me or not but this is the most coward deed a man or woman can do fueling a fight .if someone got hurt with this coward point from my side advance sorry. :highfive:
 
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Ashura24 said:
If we see the society everyone want entertainment these days for them the fights ,misunderstanding , are the favorite source of entertainment in case of man , as a man i can say some man really enjoy this type of stuffs like they love to enjoy that matter for their entertainment,i still don't get is it really funny for people to fuel these type of things?
I dunno how can they enjoy this rather than stopping that thing there,i don't know some people aggre with me or not but this is the most coward deed a man or woman can do fueling a fight .
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I absolutely agree — it is cowardice, plain and simple.

They won’t dare participate directly because doing so would tarnish the carefully crafted good boy/girl image they parade around — the “nice,” neutral persona they want everyone to believe. So instead, they hide behind fake diplomacy while secretly enjoying the chaos they help stir. Adding fuel from the shadows is easier — it's less risky, and for people who are too idle to build anything meaningful in their own lives, stirring up drama becomes their only pastime.

It’s not just immature — it’s spineless. Stirring conflict while pretending to be above it isn’t clever, it’s just classic two-faced behavior.
 
@ukgirl is so strong and I know she will passed these stupid things to and if the staff is like @Aphrodite I am really glad to be the part of the site as a staff....thank you a lot @Aphrodite to take stand for her I really appreciated because I know from which phases babygurl @ukgirl go in through.....
I know one quote,The quote "This too shall pass" that emphasizes the temporary nature of all things, both good and bad..... It suggests that neither prosperity nor adversity lasts forever, and that situations, both pleasant and painful, will eventually change......they can't do nothing only poked,abused,body shaming nothing more keyboard warriors always be a keyboard warriors.....:heart1:ukgirl babe we are always with you no matter what just be strong like you are and show them that you all are nothing just a poker who knows how to poke noses in between.....:Cwl:...
I know one thing owners are not stupid they are well aware while choosing the staff if they choose us as a staff member ....so they know we are capable to handle these stupid freaks.....:giggle::Like:....I hope I don't write to much
Let's show them girls are more powerful than they think we can handle them by just a blink ....
If they don't gonna stop we will also not stop to show our power the power of united staff....✨✨❤️
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This was the reply I was going to post in that thread but sadly thread was closed so babe I am posting here to show you I am always with you babe no need to worries from some stupid users.......

When “Righteous” Turns Rotten and the Monkey Joins In

let me ask you this have you or are you ever privy to what is discussed by me ,@Administrator @Hades and staff in our private groups outside of zozo or are you just assuming what you see IS the truth. now everyone knows i deal with SEX CHAT ,i do not have admin powers on IC side but my name and...
www.chatzozo.com
 
jasminee said:
@ukgirl is so strong and I know she will passed these stupid things to and if the staff is like @Aphrodite I am really glad to be the part of the site as a staff....thank you a lot @Aphrodite to take stand for her I really appreciated because I know from which phases babygurl @ukgirl go in through.....
I know one quote,The quote "This too shall pass" that emphasizes the temporary nature of all things, both good and bad..... It suggests that neither prosperity nor adversity lasts forever, and that situations, both pleasant and painful, will eventually change......they can't do nothing only poked,abused,body shaming nothing more keyboard warriors always be a keyboard warriors.....:heart1:ukgirl babe we are always with you no matter what just be strong like you are and show them that you all are nothing just a poker who knows how to poke noses in between.....:Cwl:...
I know one thing owners are not stupid they are well aware while choosing the staff if they choose us as a staff member ....so they know we are capable to handle these stupid freaks.....:giggle::Like:....I hope I don't write to much
Let's show them girls are more powerful than they think we can handle them by just a blink ....
If they don't gonna stop we will also not stop to show our power the power of united staff....✨✨❤️
❤️



This was the reply I was going to post in that thread but sadly thread was closed so babe I am posting here to show you I am always with you babe no need to worries from some stupid users.......

When “Righteous” Turns Rotten and the Monkey Joins In

let me ask you this have you or are you ever privy to what is discussed by me ,@Administrator @Hades and staff in our private groups outside of zozo or are you just assuming what you see IS the truth. now everyone knows i deal with SEX CHAT ,i do not have admin powers on IC side but my name and...
www.chatzozo.com
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Thank you so much for your kind words and support, Jasmine. I’m truly grateful for some of the amazing women on this platform who supported me with grace and strength—you are what I call true “girls’ girls”—women who stand up for each other, protect each other, and don’t stay silent when one of us is torn down. Like @Aphrodite , @mysteriouzz and you @jasminee —who know how to uplift and treat each other with the respect we all deserve.

No matter how different our opinions may be at times regarding site matters, I hope my experience shines a light on what should never be acceptable—from anyone. Whether it's coming from male users like Boat or, in my case, even certain female users (yes, I’m talking about the two women whose names start with “R”)—those who not only stayed silent but chose to support and fuel the stream of degrading, body-shaming, and deeply personal attacks on my dignity and even my family.

Let’s be clear: there's a basic standard of human decency we should all be able to count on. But instead of drawing the line, they encouraged and helped cross it.

What hurts the most is that despite always speaking kindly to everyone and maintaining friendly, respectful banter with most people—including those very individuals—I was met with silence when it mattered most.

But even through that silence, I remain incredibly grateful for the few truly humane and principled people on this site who chose to stand by me, lift me up, and take action when I needed it most.

Special thanks to @Aphrodite, @Hades, @Shyam, who were my strength during these horrific days, and @donotdisturb, who bravely posted the thread calling out OG’s behavior.

And to respond to what you said, Jasmine—I couldn’t agree more. The owners of this site are not stupid. They knew exactly what they were doing when they picked us to be on staff—because they saw our strength, our ability to lead, and our refusal to tolerate toxicity.

We’re not just staff—we are a force. And yes, girls are far more powerful than many think. We can handle hate, harassment, and petty bullying—and still rise, still support each other, and still lead with grace.

If they think they can break us, they’re wrong.
If they won’t stop, neither will we.

This is the power of united women—and a united staff.
 
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ukgirl said:
Thank you so much for your kind words and support, Jasmine. I’m truly grateful for some of the amazing women on this platform who supported me with grace and strength—you are what I call true “girls’ girls”—women who stand up for each other, protect each other, and don’t stay silent when one of us is torn down. Like @Aphrodite , @mysteriouzz and you @jasminee —who know how to uplift and treat each other with the respect we all deserve.

No matter how different our opinions may be at times regarding site matters, I hope my experience shines a light on what should never be acceptable—from anyone. Whether it's coming from male users or, in my case, even certain female users (yes, I’m talking about the two women whose names start with “R”)—those who not only stayed silent but chose to support and fuel the stream of degrading, body-shaming, and deeply personal attacks on my dignity and even my family.

Let’s be clear: there's a basic standard of human decency we should all be able to count on. But instead of drawing the line, they encouraged and helped cross it.

What hurts the most is that despite always speaking kindly to everyone and maintaining friendly, respectful banter with most people—including those very individuals—I was met with silence when it mattered most.

But even through that silence, I remain incredibly grateful for the few truly humane and principled people on this site who chose to stand by me, lift me up, and take action when I needed it most.

Special thanks to @Aphrodite, @Hades, @Shyam, who were my strength during these horrific days, and @donotdisturb, who bravely posted the thread calling out OG’s behavior.

And to respond to what you said, Jasmine—I couldn’t agree more. The owners of this site are not stupid. They knew exactly what they were doing when they picked us to be on staff—because they saw our strength, our ability to lead, and our refusal to tolerate toxicity.

We’re not just staff—we are a force. And yes, girls are far more powerful than many think. We can handle hate, harassment, and petty bullying—and still rise, still support each other, and still lead with grace.

If they think they can break us, they’re wrong.
If they won’t stop, neither will we.

This is the power of united women—and a united staf
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