✨ Why Do Women Tear Each Other Down Instead of Lifting Each Other Up?

[ukgirl]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

 

[Nyxen]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

This isn’t just a post — it’s a mirror. And the reflection isn’t always pretty, but it’s real. What’s heartbreaking is that women are taught to fight for space instead of build it together. Conditioned to see each other as threats instead of teammates. But the truth is — real power doesn’t compete, it uplifts. Until we unlearn the mindset that scarcity defines worth, we’ll keep seeing confidence mistaken for attitude, and ambition mocked as vanity. It’s not just women who need to do better — it’s everyone watching and staying silent. Respect begins where ego ends.

 

[mysteriouzz]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

I agree bruh! I’ve felt that pain too. I’ve cried after reading those anonymous comments. I’ve doubted myself because of someone else’s insecurity.
But not anymore. We’re not each other’s competition. We’re each other’s power.
Let’s stop pulling each other down to fit in.

 

[ukgirl]

I agree bruh! I’ve felt that pain too. I’ve cried after reading those anonymous comments. I’ve doubted myself because of someone else’s insecurity.
But not anymore. We’re not each other’s competition. We’re each other’s power.
Let’s stop pulling each other down to fit in.

Dont cry bruh, wasting energy on useless ppl is pointless. In the end they are some jobless random loser who only know how to crib at others. Instead lets use that energy to make ourselves shine brighter

 

[ukgirl]

This isn’t just a post — it’s a mirror. And the reflection isn’t always pretty, but it’s real. What’s heartbreaking is that women are taught to fight for space instead of build it together. Conditioned to see each other as threats instead of teammates. But the truth is — real power doesn’t compete, it uplifts. Until we unlearn the mindset that scarcity defines worth, we’ll keep seeing confidence mistaken for attitude, and ambition mocked as vanity. It’s not just women who need to do better — it’s everyone watching and staying silent. Respect begins where ego ends.

100% true, I wish the world realises this sooner

 

[Dom55]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

Wow. You described naked truth wonderfully . The way you elaborated it, I dont think its hard to understand who really want to .You're right — it’s heartbreaking how often women are pitted against each other instead of lifted up. Insecurity, societal conditioning, and toxic attention-seeking play big roles. The only way to break the cycle is by choosing empathy over envy, speaking up over staying silent, and making kindness louder than cruelty.

 

[FRECKLES]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

Well written

 

[ukgirl]

Wow. You described naked truth wonderfully . The way you elaborated it, I dont think its hard to understand who really want to .You're right — it’s heartbreaking how often women are pitted against each other instead of lifted up. Insecurity, societal conditioning, and toxic attention-seeking play big roles. The only way to break the cycle is by choosing empathy over envy, speaking up over staying silent, and making kindness louder than cruelty.

Yes, using our right to express our thoughts and opinion is the only way to stop this cycle, staying as a bystander wont do any help in minimising these conflicts.

 

[aniket22]

Wow. Very well written.I think in internet people want to feel vindicated.They want to feel powerful and show that they are superior to you.

Maybe in reality they are isn't much going on and these keyboard warriors feel they can do anything hiding behind anonymity.

I bet many of these harassers/abusers will not be able to utter a word if you confront them in real world.

Since they have nothing significant to say or nobody gives dam about them, they resort to abuse and harassment giving them false sense of accomplishment.

Its sad, but its true. My only two cents, ignorance is bliss, especially online on internet!

I appreciate you, bringing up this important topic.

 

[ukgirl]

Wow. Very well written.I think in internet people want to feel vindicated.They want to feel powerful and show that they are superior to you.

Maybe in reality they are isn't much going on and these keyboard warriors feel they can do anything hiding behind anonymity.

I bet many of these harassers/abusers will not be able to utter a word if you confront them in real world.

Since they have nothing significant to say or nobody gives dam about them, they resort to abuse and harassment giving them false sense of accomplishment.

Its sad, but its true. My only two cents, ignorance is bliss, especially online on internet!

I appreciate you, bringing up this important topic.

100% true - People who feel powerless in real life often project their insecurities as anger toward others. It’s not strength — it’s a reflection of their inner struggles and cheap nature.

 

[aniket22]

100% true - People who feel powerless in real life often project their insecurities as anger toward others. It’s not strength — it’s a reflection of their inner struggles and cheap nature.

Yup I agree.

 

[Jack_v2]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

It's a universal truth, the enemy of a woman is another woman and enemy of a man is another man. Nobody can change this, its happening from historical periods onwards.

 

[jasminee]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

Superb babygirl amazingly described the reality I am agree with you ......noone happy to see other happiness they started feeling anxious if they didn't get that type of happiness.....few people stab us from behind like we don't know anything and try to being good in front of us but the reality is we knows everything but still silent bcz maybe one day they understand but they never did,I always thought maybe a girl can be a good friend of girl but I guess I am wrong...the most important if you can't keep the thing which says in a friendship and say after just because u started hating them they don't deserve friendship I guess haha.....
Babe I see the queen throw away other crown just bcz of jealousy and anger hahaha.....I know one quote - " don't worry about the people who were not happy for you,they probably aren't happy for them either ".....“Don’t hate me because I am fabulous.... Hate me because I’m winning and you’re not.....be happy babe never think about this bcz when we are in chapter number 20 they are at chapter no 2....heheh I hope it's enough....

 

[Illusion]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

Honestly, I believe jealousy is the primary reason for the bulley that unfolds online. I'd rather not discuss real-life experiences, but focusing on this platform, it's clear that our initial intention to join an online platform was to have fun, engage in meaningful conversations, and form new connections.... Cuz many of us are introverts in our daily lives, and this space provides an opportunity to break out of our shells... But the moment we starts to talk without being fear of judge and we start receiving attention, a 'jealousy virus' spreads, and unfortunately, it's mostly women who get infected. I've noticed that when a particular girl is communicating with everyone ( no matter if she's normally talking or flirting or doing other things), some individuals, specially women, start viewing her as a target.. They put on a facade of sweetness, but harbor negativity in their hearts. ( And it's truly hurts, they started to hate without any reason... But not only then when someone is trying to get to know us thy also try to wash his or her brain by saying all shitty things)
Even those we've never interacted with they also feel jealous too. What's the fault of someone who's simply communicating? She faces online bullying, and people even use guest IDs to bring others down. Why? Just cause of jealousy!!

We always talk for women's empowerment, but there's a lack of unity among us. Let's put aside the fact that some men also do this (although not all men are like this, and some are truly great).

And To break this cycle, we need to stop feeling jealous and start appreciating one another. Trust me, by doing so, you'll feel at ease, and we'll finally experience unity among women.... This is the only thing i wanna say... And one more thing who always said that 'ignore ignore ', no dude we can't ignore everything everytime... I do know ignorance is a bliss but we do have our limits right if someone pushing us to our limits then they'll have to face consequences right... This is simply called online harrasing!!!! So better please stop, you never know what's happening in other's life,which phase she's facing through... So please if you don't know how to pull anyone up then don't even pull her down...

 

[Dom55]

Honestly, I believe jealousy is the primary reason for the bulley that unfolds online. I'd rather not discuss real-life experiences, but focusing on this platform, it's clear that our initial intention to join an online platform was to have fun, engage in meaningful conversations, and form new connections.... Cuz many of us are introverts in our daily lives, and this space provides an opportunity to break out of our shells... But the moment we starts to talk without being fear of judge and we start receiving attention, a 'jealousy virus' spreads, and unfortunately, it's mostly women who get infected. I've noticed that when a particular girl is communicating with everyone ( no matter if she's normally talking or flirting or doing other things), some individuals, specially women, start viewing her as a target.. They put on a facade of sweetness, but harbor negativity in their hearts. ( And it's truly hurts, they started to hate without any reason... But not only then when someone is trying to get to know us thy also try to wash his or her brain by saying all shitty things)
Even those we've never interacted with they also feel jealous too. What's the fault of someone who's simply communicating? She faces online bullying, and people even use guest IDs to bring others down. Why? Just cause of jealousy!!

We always talk for women's empowerment, but there's a lack of unity among us. Let's put aside the fact that some men also do this (although not all men are like this, and some are truly great).

And To break this cycle, we need to stop feeling jealous and start appreciating one another. Trust me, by doing so, you'll feel at ease, and we'll finally experience unity among women.... This is the only thing i wanna say... And one more thing who always said that 'ignore ignore ', no dude we can't ignore everything everytime... I do know ignorance is a bliss but we do have our limits right if someone pushing us to our limits then they'll have to face consequences right... This is simply called online harrasing!!!! So better please stop, you never know what's happening in other's life,which phase she's facing through... So please if you don't know how to pull anyone up then don't even pull her down...

Wow. Really elaborated issue perfectly well. You have genius brain for sure. Honestly agree with you n appreciate it. Ty for sharing dear. I wish all of you zozo guys n girls read it.

 

[ukgirl]

Superb babygirl amazingly described the reality I am agree with you ......noone happy to see other happiness they started feeling anxious if they didn't get that type of happiness.....few people stab us from behind like we don't know anything and try to being good in front of us but the reality is we knows everything but still silent bcz maybe one day they understand but they never did,I always thought maybe a girl can be a good friend of girl but I guess I am wrong...the most important if you can't keep the thing which says in a friendship and say after just because u started hating them they don't deserve friendship I guess haha.....
Babe I see the queen throw away other crown just bcz of jealousy and anger hahaha.....I know one quote - " don't worry about the people who were not happy for you,they probably aren't happy for them either ".....“Don’t hate me because I am fabulous.... Hate me because I’m winning and you’re not.....be happy babe never think about this bcz when we are in chapter number 20 they are at chapter no 2....heheh I hope it's enough....

Babe, you said it all so perfectly — and I felt every word. It’s sad how some people can’t handle someone else’s light, so they try to dim it instead. They act innocent in front, stab from behind, and pretend we don’t see it — but trust me, we do. We just choose silence, hoping they’ll grow… but they rarely do.
Some people don’t come to support — they come to feed off your joy, like emotional parasites, draining others because they have nothing real of their own. They hate to see you happy because it reminds them of everything they’re lacking.

Fake friendship isn’t loyalty — it’s a ticking time bomb.
The moment they turn bitter, they spill what was once sacred, forgetting that true friends protect, not expose.

As you said, “Don’t hate me because I’m fabulous — hate me because I’m rising while you’re stuck in your mess.”

 

[ukgirl]

Honestly, I believe jealousy is the primary reason for the bulley that unfolds online. I'd rather not discuss real-life experiences, but focusing on this platform, it's clear that our initial intention to join an online platform was to have fun, engage in meaningful conversations, and form new connections.... Cuz many of us are introverts in our daily lives, and this space provides an opportunity to break out of our shells... But the moment we starts to talk without being fear of judge and we start receiving attention, a 'jealousy virus' spreads, and unfortunately, it's mostly women who get infected. I've noticed that when a particular girl is communicating with everyone ( no matter if she's normally talking or flirting or doing other things), some individuals, specially women, start viewing her as a target.. They put on a facade of sweetness, but harbor negativity in their hearts. ( And it's truly hurts, they started to hate without any reason... But not only then when someone is trying to get to know us thy also try to wash his or her brain by saying all shitty things)
Even those we've never interacted with they also feel jealous too. What's the fault of someone who's simply communicating? She faces online bullying, and people even use guest IDs to bring others down. Why? Just cause of jealousy!!

We always talk for women's empowerment, but there's a lack of unity among us. Let's put aside the fact that some men also do this (although not all men are like this, and some are truly great).

And To break this cycle, we need to stop feeling jealous and start appreciating one another. Trust me, by doing so, you'll feel at ease, and we'll finally experience unity among women.... This is the only thing i wanna say... And one more thing who always said that 'ignore ignore ', no dude we can't ignore everything everytime... I do know ignorance is a bliss but we do have our limits right if someone pushing us to our limits then they'll have to face consequences right... This is simply called online harrasing!!!! So better please stop, you never know what's happening in other's life,which phase she's facing through... So please if you don't know how to pull anyone up then don't even pull her down...

I completely agree with u Illu. Jealousy is a sickness — and some people online are spreading it like a virus, infecting every space with bitterness, fake sweetness, and venom disguised as “concern”, when they are vulnerable and using it to emotionally manipulate others when time comes. Especially when a woman starts shining, speaking freely, or simply enjoying herself — suddenly, she's a threat. Why? Because some people can’t stand to see confidence that they don't have themselves.

They won’t clap when you win, but they'll be the first to whisper behind your back. They don’t know your story, your struggles, or your scars — yet they’ll project their emptiness onto you just because you dared to exist in peace.
And let’s be honest — women tearing down women isn’t empowerment.

And don’t get me started on the parasites using guest accounts to stalk, shame, and spread lies. That’s not just jealousy — that’s cowardice on full display.

And to those always chanting “just ignore”:
No. We won’t always stay silent.
Because constant bullying isn’t a vibe — it’s emotional warfare.
And everyone has a breaking point.

So if you can’t uplift someone, at the very least — don’t leech off their energy while plotting their downfall. Keep your envy to yourself.

This platform was meant for connection, not comparison. And trust me — unity will always be stronger than ego. But until then, we’ll keep calling out the poison masked as popularity.

To the real ones: Keep shining.
To the jealous ones: Heal.
And to the bullies: We see you. And we're done playing nice.

 

[CHARLIE_]

Well said!!

 

[MysticNova]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

Beautifully written,

 

[Samshady]

It’s a hard truth, but one we need to talk about since this doesn’t just happen in real life. It happens online too. In group chats. In forums. On anonymous apps and community spaces where people hide behind screens.

Why is it that, so often, women find themselves competing instead of celebrating each other? Why do we whisper behind backs, roll eyes at someone’s success, or let jealousy turn into judgment?
When another woman shines, why do some feel threatened instead of inspired? Why is confidence mistaken for arrogance, and ambition for attention-seeking?

We see it every day —

• Jealous comments.
• Passive-aggressive digs.
• Silent bullying dressed up as “just jokes.”

Why do some feel the need to compete, compare, judge, and shame instead of support, celebrate, and grow together?
We say we want empowerment, but sometimes we're the first to pull the rug out from under one another.

• Is it insecurity?
  Is it how we’ve been conditioned—to believe there’s only room for one at the top?
  Is it fear that someone else’s success dims our own light?

When one woman wins, that should be a victory for all of us.
But instead, we whisper, gossip, make fun of her confidence, attack her choices, and call her names.

But that’s not the worst part:
Why do some men support and even enjoy this jealousy?
Why are some men fueling this rivalry for their own entertainment—stirring conflict, playing both sides, and sitting back while women suffer?
And even worse:

• Why are women being harassed with sexual remarks just to be silenced?
• Why are anonymous accounts being used to slutshame, attack family members, and spread rumors which spread like wildfire
• Why is female sexuality constantly weaponized to shame, ridicule, and devalue women when they dare to stand out?
• Why are Guest accounts get added into this mix and are used to humiliate and troll.

It’s not a joke. It’s not “drama.” It’s harassment. It’s abuse.
️‍️ The damage is real. Reputations are ruined. Mental health is shattered. And for what? To make insecure people feel powerful for five minutes?

Let this be clear:

• A woman’s confidence is not arrogance.
• Her body is not an invitation.
• Her success is not your competition.
• And her silence doesn’t mean she deserves it — it means she’s tired of fighting battles she shouldn’t have to.

It’s time to break the cycle and change the narrative.

• Stop tearing each other down.
• And stop letting men and women use your pain to turn things into a circus.
• Defend her when she’s not around.
• Clap when she wins.

If you’re not helping fix her crown, stop pretending you’re not part of the problem.
Real queens fix each other’s crowns. And real kings don’t play games with them.

Let’s talk.
Why do you think this is so common—and how do we break the cycle?

very well said

Superb babygirl amazingly described the reality I am agree with you ......noone happy to see other happiness they started feeling anxious if they didn't get that type of happiness.....few people stab us from behind like we don't know anything and try to being good in front of us but the reality is we knows everything but still silent bcz maybe one day they understand but they never did,I always thought maybe a girl can be a good friend of girl but I guess I am wrong...the most important if you can't keep the thing which says in a friendship and say after just because u started hating them they don't deserve friendship I guess haha.....
Babe I see the queen throw away other crown just bcz of jealousy and anger hahaha.....I know one quote - " don't worry about the people who were not happy for you,they probably aren't happy for them either ".....“Don’t hate me because I am fabulous.... Hate me because I’m winning and you’re not.....be happy babe never think about this bcz when we are in chapter number 20 they are at chapter no 2....heheh I hope it's enough....

ahaaaan darling
absolutely correct
ahaan essay writing skills like me
yuhuuu putting up the fire