Attachment is the root of suffering
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Always true , Attachments always hurts
Nalla panikal ayirunu alle kittiyathe ellamAlways true , Attachments always hurts
I guess
some users from IC followed dat preaching of Buddha n added these lines n their bio *no strings attached-* lol
I believe we, especially Asians, often fall into attachment and lose our happiness compared to WesternersI guess
Attachments are inevitable, but how it impacts one's life determines the extend of suffering. Don't give the remote control of one's emotions to others so that they can control it.
Kavi udheshikunathe?
mattulavarkk nammude emotions control cheyan kodukathe irunnal no suffering.
English il njan poetic aayitu yezhuthum atha manasilakathe
sulthan
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Attachments hurts but it mainly due to our expectation that they will treat us in the same way as we treat them.. we cant avoid the expectations but we can control them...
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Yeah attaching with expectations is the root of suffering.
Of course, sherikum pani kittiya karyathil ahnu njan Pro
Aliya oralude emotions hurt cheyyan attachment reason akunudo ennale chothiyam , nee emotions arum control cheyyam kodukanda enne paranja engane sheriyakum … ithe angane alledamattulavarkk nammude emotions control cheyan kodukathe irunnal no suffering.
English il njan poetic aayitu yezhuthum atha manasilakathe
Attachment without expectation, how it’s possible?Attachment starts to hurt when attention of expectations come in
Attachment without expectations !
Hurmm its impossible sometimes yet, you see some type of attachment is rooted in unconditional love, acceptance, and a deep connection that is not contingent upon future results or changes. It emphasizes appreciating the present moment and the other as they are, without needing them to behave or evolve in any particular way. This is often referred to as a more mature or mindful form of attachment, where the attachment is based on genuine care and connection rather than dependency or expectation.
Hurmm its impossible sometimes yet, you see some type of attachment is rooted in unconditional love, acceptance, and a deep connection that is not contingent upon future results or changes. It emphasizes appreciating the present moment and the other as they are, without needing them to behave or evolve in any particular way. This is often referred to as a more mature or mindful form of attachment, where the attachment is based on genuine care and connection rather than dependency or expectation.
sulthan
Wellknown Ace
That's impossible...but we can limit it right?
I’m not sure about the practicality of it, but what I know is that if you’re attached to someone, an expectation is created. Without that, I don’t think any attachment would form between them. However love can be ….
Yeah ! I am aware it impossible but it depends on how we bring it..
If we are aware that certain things are going to hurt our feelings.. Why should we allow it ?
As you said we can limit it
Yeah, that’s true. Then, attachment can be a root of suffering, right?
Agree with you..
Different people different perspection right.. End of it .. Love stays as love always
