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Deepak Kiran said:
No one talks about going to a dance and being the only guy there without a partner. I really want women to go see how difficult dating & socializing is for some men. It will open their eyes and allow them to develop empathy. I also believe they would stop creating only fans and start treating men with more respect.
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Is it possible???
 
Deepak Kiran said:
No one talks about going to a dance and being the only guy there without a partner. I really want women to go see how difficult dating & socializing is for some men. It will open their eyes and allow them to develop empathy. I also believe they would stop creating only fans and start treating men with more respect.
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It makes sense. Walk into a dance where women pick partners and you’ll see the same thing many men experience in dating a few guys get all the attention while the rest stand there pretending they’re “just enjoying the music.”

It’s not bitterness, it’s reality. Rejection is something most men learn to handle early, because if we don’t approach, nothing happens. A little empathy would go a long way because confidence isn’t built in comfort, it’s built after being the guy left standing there a few times
 
Deepak Kiran said:
No one talks about going to a dance and being the only guy there without a partner. I really want women to go see how difficult dating & socializing is for some men. It will open their eyes and allow them to develop empathy. I also believe they would stop creating only fans and start treating men with more respect.
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I have complete empathy towards men in this matter…deeepsss... I even tried coming in a male ID myself, and suddenly it’s like I turned invisible no one—including my close friends—really talks!
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Deepak Kiran said:
No one talks about going to a dance and being the only guy there without a partner. I really want women to go see how difficult dating & socializing is for some men. It will open their eyes and allow them to develop empathy. I also believe they would stop creating only fans and start treating men with more respect.
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Bunny Boy said:
It makes sense. Walk into a dance where women pick partners and you’ll see the same thing many men experience in dating a few guys get all the attention while the rest stand there pretending they’re “just enjoying the music.”

It’s not bitterness, it’s reality. Rejection is something most men learn to handle early, because if we don’t approach, nothing happens. A little empathy would go a long way because confidence isn’t built in comfort, it’s built after being the guy left standing there a few times
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What you’re saying is valid… being the one left standing, not chosen, isn’t easy. But try to see the other side too. You at least have the chance to go out, try, and face rejection.

Many women don’t even have that chance. Because of family restrictions, safety concerns, or social pressure, they’re held back before they can even step into those spaces.

While you’re feeling ‘no one chose me,’ they’re feeling ‘I don’t even get to be there.’ One pain is visible… the other often goes unnoticed.

These days it may look like everyone has someone, but in reality, many people on both sides are dealing with loneliness. The difference is some are rejected in the open, while others are stopped before they even get the opportunity.

That’s why empathy shouldn’t be one-sided. It has to go both ways for real understanding to exist.
You’re facing rejection outside… they’re being stopped before they even step out. Pain exists on both sides empathy should too
 
ReddyGari ammai said:
What you’re saying is valid… being the one left standing, not chosen, isn’t easy. But try to see the other side too. You at least have the chance to go out, try, and face rejection.

Many women don’t even have that chance. Because of family restrictions, safety concerns, or social pressure, they’re held back before they can even step into those spaces.

While you’re feeling ‘no one chose me,’ they’re feeling ‘I don’t even get to be there.’ One pain is visible… the other often goes unnoticed.

These days it may look like everyone has someone, but in reality, many people on both sides are dealing with loneliness. The difference is some are rejected in the open, while others are stopped before they even get the opportunity.

That’s why empathy shouldn’t be one-sided. It has to go both ways for real understanding to exist.
You’re facing rejection outside… they’re being stopped before they even step out. Pain exists on both sides empathy should too
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I understand your point, and you’re right that restrictions, safety concerns, and social pressure can limit opportunities for many women. That reality shouldn’t be dismissed.
But the point I was making is about what happens once someone is in those social spaces. For many men, it means repeatedly putting themselves out there, facing rejection openly, and still being expected to carry confidence as if it doesn’t affect them.

So yes, both sides experience their own struggles. Some people are held back from entering the room, while others stand inside it feeling invisible.That’s why the conversation isn’t about competing pains it’s about recognizing that both experiences are real, and empathy should extend in both directions.
 
Bunny Boy said:
I understand your point, and you’re right that restrictions, safety concerns, and social pressure can limit opportunities for many women. That reality shouldn’t be dismissed.
But the point I was making is about what happens once someone is in those social spaces. For many men, it means repeatedly putting themselves out there, facing rejection openly, and still being expected to carry confidence as if it doesn’t affect them.

So yes, both sides experience their own struggles. Some people are held back from entering the room, while others stand inside it feeling invisible.That’s why the conversation isn’t about competing pains it’s about recognizing that both experiences are real, and empathy should extend in both directions.
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I understand your point clearly, and I genuinely respect it. Being in that space, facing repeated rejection, and still having to carry confidence isn’t easy at all ..i can see how difficult that can be.
At the same time, my intention wasn’t to compare struggles, but to acknowledge that different people face different limitations. Some step into the room and feel invisible… while others are held back before they even get the chance to enter.Neither experience is lesser
 
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