Giffer
Favoured Frenzy
We are the only creatures on earth who don’t just live in the moment—we live in our imaginations. We exist in the "now," but we are constantly building, fearing, and preparing for a "later" that hasn't happened yet. In this journey, we meet people who feel like home, and others who feel like total strangers.
I’ll be honest: I am a complex person. I feel like I carry all the flaws a human can have. I spend a lot of time watching people. Some might call that "judging," but to me, it’s just understanding. By studying their emotions, their hidden fears, and what they truly love, I’ve learned how to connect with the people I actually want in my life. This habit helped me immensely in my ZOZO journey. Most people reading this might not "get" me, and that’s okay. To them, I just say, "अपना टाइम आएगा".
But being a deep observer has a dark side. You notice the tiny shifts in people before they even realize they’ve changed. You see the distance growing like the ticking of a clock’s second hand. You might ask them what’s wrong, and they’ll look at you like you’re crazy because they haven't felt the change yet. But eventually, those tiny cracks turn into a break, and things end exactly as you feared. In the beginning, you fight for the people you love. But once you realize the outcome is inevitable, you simply choose to be silent.
There have been times I felt invisible—like people didn't realize my value and saw me as just another face in the crowd. But they dont know that, I treat my time like a gift. I don’t give it to everyone. My friend @Gupthan jokes, "Quality over Quantity," and he’s right. It’s not just about being "wise" with my time; it’s about protecting my energy.
I find it incredibly hard to cut people out of my life unless they hurt me deeply, even if they do it indirectly. You might think I’m just overthinking or misunderstanding the situation, but the truth is: "I OBSERVE VERY MUCH". I see the truth in the details. At the end of the day, I have to be my own priority. What feels right to you might be wrong to me, and that’s just how life works.
Ultimately, I put my faith in Time. It’s the only thing that truly heals—friendships, heartbreaks, or old wounds. I keep telling myself until I finally believe it: "Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum" and, of course, "All is Well".
മലയാളം പതിപ്പിനു വേണ്ടി CHATGPTയെ സമീപ്പിക്കുക.
I’ll be honest: I am a complex person. I feel like I carry all the flaws a human can have. I spend a lot of time watching people. Some might call that "judging," but to me, it’s just understanding. By studying their emotions, their hidden fears, and what they truly love, I’ve learned how to connect with the people I actually want in my life. This habit helped me immensely in my ZOZO journey. Most people reading this might not "get" me, and that’s okay. To them, I just say, "अपना टाइम आएगा".
But being a deep observer has a dark side. You notice the tiny shifts in people before they even realize they’ve changed. You see the distance growing like the ticking of a clock’s second hand. You might ask them what’s wrong, and they’ll look at you like you’re crazy because they haven't felt the change yet. But eventually, those tiny cracks turn into a break, and things end exactly as you feared. In the beginning, you fight for the people you love. But once you realize the outcome is inevitable, you simply choose to be silent.
There have been times I felt invisible—like people didn't realize my value and saw me as just another face in the crowd. But they dont know that, I treat my time like a gift. I don’t give it to everyone. My friend @Gupthan jokes, "Quality over Quantity," and he’s right. It’s not just about being "wise" with my time; it’s about protecting my energy.
I find it incredibly hard to cut people out of my life unless they hurt me deeply, even if they do it indirectly. You might think I’m just overthinking or misunderstanding the situation, but the truth is: "I OBSERVE VERY MUCH". I see the truth in the details. At the end of the day, I have to be my own priority. What feels right to you might be wrong to me, and that’s just how life works.
Ultimately, I put my faith in Time. It’s the only thing that truly heals—friendships, heartbreaks, or old wounds. I keep telling myself until I finally believe it: "Idhuvum Kadandhu Pogum" and, of course, "All is Well".
മലയാളം പതിപ്പിനു വേണ്ടി CHATGPTയെ സമീപ്പിക്കുക.
choose your mental peace over everything
