Okay, real talk , we can meme about choking, handcuffs, and being a "certified menace in bed" all day... but the moment someone says vaginal health, safe word, or emotional aftercare, the room gets quieter than your crush’s replies.
Why is sex still such a taboo topic, even when everyone’s lowkey (or highkey) doing it, thinking about it, or at least googling weird stuff at 2 AM?
Like, we can binge-watch Game of Thrones (where every third scene is someone getting railed), but can’t talk to our best friends about what consent really sounds like? Or admit we had zero clue what to do the first time someone said, “Tell me what you like”?
(Spoiler alert: Panic is not a kink… usually.)
I mean, where was the real sex ed when we needed it? Not just the “This is a banana. Here’s a condom. Don’t die.” class.
I’m talking the things that matter ,
But we never got that because society treats sex like Voldemort , "He Who Must Not Be Named"... unless it's whispered, joked about, or shamed.
So here’s me throwing this in the group like a mic on fire:
What’s one sexual, emotional, or relationship truth you wish someone had told you earlier , without judgment, awkwardness, or shame?
Let’s laugh, share, overshare, and maybe even unlearn a few things together.
Also, if you thought “aftercare” was just wiping sweat and ordering biryani... we need to talk.
(No kink-shaming, no judging , all vibes welcome.)
Why is sex still such a taboo topic, even when everyone’s lowkey (or highkey) doing it, thinking about it, or at least googling weird stuff at 2 AM?
Like, we can binge-watch Game of Thrones (where every third scene is someone getting railed), but can’t talk to our best friends about what consent really sounds like? Or admit we had zero clue what to do the first time someone said, “Tell me what you like”?
(Spoiler alert: Panic is not a kink… usually.)
I mean, where was the real sex ed when we needed it? Not just the “This is a banana. Here’s a condom. Don’t die.” class.
I’m talking the things that matter ,
- How to communicate during sex
- What’s normal vs. what’s a red flag
- That it’s okay to ask questions like “wait… how do I even know if I like this?”
- And yes , that pleasure, respect, and mutual fun isn’t a fantasy. It’s the bare minimum.
But we never got that because society treats sex like Voldemort , "He Who Must Not Be Named"... unless it's whispered, joked about, or shamed.
So here’s me throwing this in the group like a mic on fire:
What’s one sexual, emotional, or relationship truth you wish someone had told you earlier , without judgment, awkwardness, or shame?
Let’s laugh, share, overshare, and maybe even unlearn a few things together.
Also, if you thought “aftercare” was just wiping sweat and ordering biryani... we need to talk.
(No kink-shaming, no judging , all vibes welcome.)