If you judge a woman based on her sexuality, you don’t belong on a sex chat site—you belong in a time capsule from the 1800s

[ukgirl]

Sex is weaponized against women and paraded as a medal of honor for men—and this rotten world swallows that double standard like it’s a scripture.

Let’s rip the mask off.

If you’re the kind of bottom-feeding coward who judges a woman by her sexuality, don’t pretend you’re upholding values. You’re not righteous. You’re not virtuous. You’re just a spineless parasite choking on your own insecurity. Hiding behind a screen, frothing with hate every time a woman dares to exist without catering to your wounded little ego.

Here’s what really makes me sick:
It’s not women owning their sexuality—it’s how you twist it.
A woman doesn’t act like your fantasy puppet—submissive, soft-spoken, "pure"—and suddenly she’s a “slut”? A “whore”?
No. She’s just a mirror showing you everything you're not: strong, sure, and unapologetically in control.

Let me drill this into your thick skull:
– Sexuality, self-respect, and ego are not the same thing.
But then again, you’ve never had a stable grip on any of the three. Your self-worth is so tied to whether a woman approves of you, you crumble the second she doesn't.

You praise men who sleep around—"chads," "legends," "alpha males."
But when a woman does the same? Suddenly it’s rumors, slut-shaming, gangbang gossip, and whispered filth.
Why? Because a woman who doesn’t need you, who doesn’t flinch when you try to intimidate her—terrifies you.
Her confidence doesn’t just unsettle you—it dismantles your fragile illusion of control.

And don’t think we don’t see through your game.
– A woman stays quiet? You weaponize her silence.
– She speaks up? You mock, interrupt, and belittle.
– She stays polished and private? You dig for imaginary dirt.
– She’s bold and outspoken? You launch your smear campaign.

Why? Because the truth is simple:
You’re forgettable. And tearing women down is your only shot at relevance.

Let’s be absolutely clear:
– Being sexually active doesn’t make a woman dirty.
– Being confident doesn’t make her dangerous.
– Being silent doesn’t make her weak.
– And your bitterness? It’s not depth—it’s desperation.

To the faceless cowards and insecure loudmouths in places like in Telugu room—trading in gossip like currency, acting like gatekeepers of virtue while living in digital filth:
You are not powerful. You are not feared. You are pitied.
You can’t attract respect, so you spread lies.
You can’t inspire desire, so you spin rumors.
You can’t stand beside powerful women, so you try to crush them from below.

Newsflash: the more mud you throw, the filthier you look.

If your idea of masculinity revolves around policing women, obsessing over their bodies, and throwing tantrums when you’re ignored—here’s your prescription:
Get therapy.
Not a girlfriend. Not another group chat or group call to whine in. Not a voice note.
Professional. Help. Immediately.

And if your mind still links a woman’s worth to her sex life?
Then go scream into your mic over Ludo matches while your life continues to rot in irrelevance.
Because every rumor you spread, every attempt to control or shame—only proves what we already know:
You're broken. You're bitter. You're beneath the women you can’t touch, match, or silence.

You don’t get to cry about people not defending you and then attack others for speaking up.
You don’t get to play victim when you’ve chosen to be the predator.
You don’t get to preach morality when you’ve never once faced your own reflection honestly.

Here’s your final warning:
Fix your mindset. Fix your ego. Fix your pathetic excuse of a personality.
Get it together—or get the hell out of adult spaces, especially chat sites where sexuality is celebrated, not policed.
Because if you can’t handle women owning their power, their voice, or their body— you’re not built for grown-up conversations. You're barely built for human interaction.

 

[Aphrodite]

when men call a woman a slut they are technically insult every other male ,the word Slut means a "woman with the MORALS of a MAN " just saying
most REAL men find a woman with sexual experience more of a turn on (i know my past sexual exploits turn Hades on ). a woman who is confidant about her body ,her sexuality and her sexual preferences is a woman who will go far in life and knows how to protect herself

TO ALL THE LADIES OUT THERE : FIND YOURSELF A MAN WHO FUCKS YOU LIKE A WHORE IN THE BEDROOM BUT TREATS AND PAMPERS YOU LIKE A QUEEN OR DONT BOTHER FINDING A MAN AT ALL

 

[KeNZie]

Well said—every word cuts through the noise like truth should.
This isn’t a rant—it’s a reality check.

If a woman owning her voice and body threatens you,
the problem isn’t her—it’s your weak, insecure ego.

You don’t hate her confidence.
You hate that she doesn’t need you.
And no amount of gossip or hate can change that.

Fix your mindset. Or stay irrelevant.

 

[Alessandro]

and as always she left no crumbs

 

[ukgirl]

when men call a woman a slut they are technically insult every other male ,the word Slut means a "woman with the MORALS of a MAN " just saying
most REAL men find a woman with sexual experience more of a turn on (i know my past sexual exploits turn Hades on ). a woman who is confidant about her body ,her sexuality and her sexual preferences is a woman who will go far in life and knows how to protect herself

TO ALL THE LADIES OUT THERE : FIND YOURSELF A MAN WHO FUCKS YOU LIKE A WHORE IN THE BEDROOM BUT TREATS AND PAMPERS YOU LIKE A QUEEN OR DONT BOTHER FINDING A MAN AT ALL

Exactly. When men use the word "slut" to insult women, they’re not just shaming her—they’re unknowingly admitting that male behavior becomes unacceptable the second it’s displayed by a woman.

Because the word "slut" doesn’t mean immoral. It means a woman acting with the same sexual freedom that men are celebrated for. So when someone spits that word out as an insult, all they’re really saying is: “I can’t handle women doing what I do without consequence.”

Spoiler alert: that’s not masculinity. That’s fragile ego in disguise.

And yes, most actual men—men who aren’t scared of confident, sexually experienced women—prefer a woman who knows what she wants, what she likes, and isn’t apologizing for either. She's not just a turn-on—she’s powerful. She’s real. She’s untouchable by the opinions of insecure boys playing grown-up.

A woman who owns her body and pleasure is a woman who can’t be owned by anyone else.

So to every woman out there:
Find the man who worships both sides of you.
The one who matches your fire in the bedroom, but respects your soul like royalty.
Because if he can’t do both, he’s not a man—he’s a placeholder.

And to the boys out there trying to control women by slut-shaming them:
The only thing you're exposing is your fear of being irrelevant to a woman who doesn’t need your approval. Shaming women who dont agree to cams or pressurising them for sexting cheapens your character, not the opposite way round

Grow up—or get left behind.

 

[ukgirl]

Well said—every word cuts through the noise like truth should.
This isn’t a rant—it’s a reality check.

If a woman owning her voice and body threatens you,
the problem isn’t her—it’s your weak, insecure ego.

You don’t hate her confidence.
You hate that she doesn’t need you.
And no amount of gossip or hate can change that.

Fix your mindset. Or stay irrelevant.

I genuinely don’t understand what gives some men the delusion that they have the right to judge women to our faces. Where does that confidence even come from? From the same insecure little minds that brag about their own sex lives but fall apart when a woman does the same?

If a woman chooses to sext, meet someone, or have fun—that’s her choice. Her body. Her rules. Period.
But men do this on autopilot, ten times over, and somehow come out looking like legends. Meanwhile, the second a woman does it once, she’s labeled, shamed, dragged.

Let me bring an example:
I watched a guy harass a girl he met just for sex. He used her, exposed her identity, humiliated her until she had to quit the site. And guess what?
He’s still being supported. Still protected. Still treated like some harmless clown.
While she got erased. Silenced. Discarded (Telugu room people know who I am talking about).

And that’s the sick part—this isn’t about who did what.
It’s about who society lets get away with it.

So let’s stop pretending this is about morals. It’s not.
It’s about control. Power. Fragile egos trying to stay relevant by tearing women down.

Enough of that.
You don’t get to be the villain and play the victim.
You don’t get to destroy someone and still expect respect.
And if you’re still backing men like that? You’re just as rotten as they are.

 

[Sherl0ck]

Sex is weaponized against women and paraded as a medal of honor for men—and this rotten world swallows that double standard like it’s a scripture.

Let’s rip the mask off.

If you’re the kind of bottom-feeding coward who judges a woman by her sexuality, don’t pretend you’re upholding values. You’re not righteous. You’re not virtuous. You’re just a spineless parasite choking on your own insecurity. Hiding behind a screen, frothing with hate every time a woman dares to exist without catering to your wounded little ego.

Here’s what really makes me sick:
It’s not women owning their sexuality—it’s how you twist it.
A woman doesn’t act like your fantasy puppet—submissive, soft-spoken, "pure"—and suddenly she’s a “slut”? A “whore”?
No. She’s just a mirror showing you everything you're not: strong, sure, and unapologetically in control.

Let me drill this into your thick skull:
– Sexuality, self-respect, and ego are not the same thing.
But then again, you’ve never had a stable grip on any of the three. Your self-worth is so tied to whether a woman approves of you, you crumble the second she doesn't.

You praise men who sleep around—"chads," "legends," "alpha males."
But when a woman does the same? Suddenly it’s rumors, slut-shaming, gangbang gossip, and whispered filth.
Why? Because a woman who doesn’t need you, who doesn’t flinch when you try to intimidate her—terrifies you.
Her confidence doesn’t just unsettle you—it dismantles your fragile illusion of control.

And don’t think we don’t see through your game.
– A woman stays quiet? You weaponize her silence.
– She speaks up? You mock, interrupt, and belittle.
– She stays polished and private? You dig for imaginary dirt.
– She’s bold and outspoken? You launch your smear campaign.

Why? Because the truth is simple:
You’re forgettable. And tearing women down is your only shot at relevance.

Let’s be absolutely clear:
– Being sexually active doesn’t make a woman dirty.
– Being confident doesn’t make her dangerous.
– Being silent doesn’t make her weak.
– And your bitterness? It’s not depth—it’s desperation.

To the faceless cowards and insecure loudmouths in places like in Telugu room—trading in gossip like currency, acting like gatekeepers of virtue while living in digital filth:
You are not powerful. You are not feared. You are pitied.
You can’t attract respect, so you spread lies.
You can’t inspire desire, so you spin rumors.
You can’t stand beside powerful women, so you try to crush them from below.

Newsflash: the more mud you throw, the filthier you look.

If your idea of masculinity revolves around policing women, obsessing over their bodies, and throwing tantrums when you’re ignored—here’s your prescription:
Get therapy.
Not a girlfriend. Not another group chat or group call to whine in. Not a voice note.
Professional. Help. Immediately.

And if your mind still links a woman’s worth to her sex life?
Then go scream into your mic over Ludo matches while your life continues to rot in irrelevance.
Because every rumor you spread, every attempt to control or shame—only proves what we already know:
You're broken. You're bitter. You're beneath the women you can’t touch, match, or silence.

You don’t get to cry about people not defending you and then attack others for speaking up.
You don’t get to play victim when you’ve chosen to be the predator.
You don’t get to preach morality when you’ve never once faced your own reflection honestly.

Here’s your final warning:
Fix your mindset. Fix your ego. Fix your pathetic excuse of a personality.
Get it together—or get the hell out of adult spaces, especially chat sites where sexuality is celebrated, not policed.
Because if you can’t handle women owning their power, their voice, or their body— you’re not built for grown-up conversations. You're barely built for human interaction.

Honestly speaking, very well described by you. I just wanna tell one thing that understanding matters for equivalent ⁠♡

 

[AASHVATHKANNA]

As said be a man who can make ur girl cry on bed with pleasure but not with pressure and also make her a queen with a sweet spreading smile in public not with a scar to hide

 

[Multiverse★madness]

Sex is weaponized against women and paraded as a medal of honor for men—and this rotten world swallows that double standard like it’s a scripture.

Let’s rip the mask off.

If you’re the kind of bottom-feeding coward who judges a woman by her sexuality, don’t pretend you’re upholding values. You’re not righteous. You’re not virtuous. You’re just a spineless parasite choking on your own insecurity. Hiding behind a screen, frothing with hate every time a woman dares to exist without catering to your wounded little ego.

Here’s what really makes me sick:
It’s not women owning their sexuality—it’s how you twist it.
A woman doesn’t act like your fantasy puppet—submissive, soft-spoken, "pure"—and suddenly she’s a “slut”? A “whore”?
No. She’s just a mirror showing you everything you're not: strong, sure, and unapologetically in control.

Let me drill this into your thick skull:
– Sexuality, self-respect, and ego are not the same thing.
But then again, you’ve never had a stable grip on any of the three. Your self-worth is so tied to whether a woman approves of you, you crumble the second she doesn't.

You praise men who sleep around—"chads," "legends," "alpha males."
But when a woman does the same? Suddenly it’s rumors, slut-shaming, gangbang gossip, and whispered filth.
Why? Because a woman who doesn’t need you, who doesn’t flinch when you try to intimidate her—terrifies you.
Her confidence doesn’t just unsettle you—it dismantles your fragile illusion of control.

And don’t think we don’t see through your game.
– A woman stays quiet? You weaponize her silence.
– She speaks up? You mock, interrupt, and belittle.
– She stays polished and private? You dig for imaginary dirt.
– She’s bold and outspoken? You launch your smear campaign.

Why? Because the truth is simple:
You’re forgettable. And tearing women down is your only shot at relevance.

Let’s be absolutely clear:
– Being sexually active doesn’t make a woman dirty.
– Being confident doesn’t make her dangerous.
– Being silent doesn’t make her weak.
– And your bitterness? It’s not depth—it’s desperation.

To the faceless cowards and insecure loudmouths in places like in Telugu room—trading in gossip like currency, acting like gatekeepers of virtue while living in digital filth:
You are not powerful. You are not feared. You are pitied.
You can’t attract respect, so you spread lies.
You can’t inspire desire, so you spin rumors.
You can’t stand beside powerful women, so you try to crush them from below.

Newsflash: the more mud you throw, the filthier you look.

If your idea of masculinity revolves around policing women, obsessing over their bodies, and throwing tantrums when you’re ignored—here’s your prescription:
Get therapy.
Not a girlfriend. Not another group chat or group call to whine in. Not a voice note.
Professional. Help. Immediately.

And if your mind still links a woman’s worth to her sex life?
Then go scream into your mic over Ludo matches while your life continues to rot in irrelevance.
Because every rumor you spread, every attempt to control or shame—only proves what we already know:
You're broken. You're bitter. You're beneath the women you can’t touch, match, or silence.

You don’t get to cry about people not defending you and then attack others for speaking up.
You don’t get to play victim when you’ve chosen to be the predator.
You don’t get to preach morality when you’ve never once faced your own reflection honestly.

Here’s your final warning:
Fix your mindset. Fix your ego. Fix your pathetic excuse of a personality.
Get it together—or get the hell out of adult spaces, especially chat sites where sexuality is celebrated, not policed.
Because if you can’t handle women owning their power, their voice, or their body— you’re not built for grown-up conversations. You're barely built for human interaction.

Well said.
Every line hits the truth most won’t admit.

 

[Dom55]

Sex is weaponized against women and paraded as a medal of honor for men—and this rotten world swallows that double standard like it’s a scripture.

Let’s rip the mask off.

If you’re the kind of bottom-feeding coward who judges a woman by her sexuality, don’t pretend you’re upholding values. You’re not righteous. You’re not virtuous. You’re just a spineless parasite choking on your own insecurity. Hiding behind a screen, frothing with hate every time a woman dares to exist without catering to your wounded little ego.

Here’s what really makes me sick:
It’s not women owning their sexuality—it’s how you twist it.
A woman doesn’t act like your fantasy puppet—submissive, soft-spoken, "pure"—and suddenly she’s a “slut”? A “whore”?
No. She’s just a mirror showing you everything you're not: strong, sure, and unapologetically in control.

Let me drill this into your thick skull:
– Sexuality, self-respect, and ego are not the same thing.
But then again, you’ve never had a stable grip on any of the three. Your self-worth is so tied to whether a woman approves of you, you crumble the second she doesn't.

You praise men who sleep around—"chads," "legends," "alpha males."
But when a woman does the same? Suddenly it’s rumors, slut-shaming, gangbang gossip, and whispered filth.
Why? Because a woman who doesn’t need you, who doesn’t flinch when you try to intimidate her—terrifies you.
Her confidence doesn’t just unsettle you—it dismantles your fragile illusion of control.

And don’t think we don’t see through your game.
– A woman stays quiet? You weaponize her silence.
– She speaks up? You mock, interrupt, and belittle.
– She stays polished and private? You dig for imaginary dirt.
– She’s bold and outspoken? You launch your smear campaign.

Why? Because the truth is simple:
You’re forgettable. And tearing women down is your only shot at relevance.

Let’s be absolutely clear:
– Being sexually active doesn’t make a woman dirty.
– Being confident doesn’t make her dangerous.
– Being silent doesn’t make her weak.
– And your bitterness? It’s not depth—it’s desperation.

To the faceless cowards and insecure loudmouths in places like in Telugu room—trading in gossip like currency, acting like gatekeepers of virtue while living in digital filth:
You are not powerful. You are not feared. You are pitied.
You can’t attract respect, so you spread lies.
You can’t inspire desire, so you spin rumors.
You can’t stand beside powerful women, so you try to crush them from below.

Newsflash: the more mud you throw, the filthier you look.

If your idea of masculinity revolves around policing women, obsessing over their bodies, and throwing tantrums when you’re ignored—here’s your prescription:
Get therapy.
Not a girlfriend. Not another group chat or group call to whine in. Not a voice note.
Professional. Help. Immediately.

And if your mind still links a woman’s worth to her sex life?
Then go scream into your mic over Ludo matches while your life continues to rot in irrelevance.
Because every rumor you spread, every attempt to control or shame—only proves what we already know:
You're broken. You're bitter. You're beneath the women you can’t touch, match, or silence.

You don’t get to cry about people not defending you and then attack others for speaking up.
You don’t get to play victim when you’ve chosen to be the predator.
You don’t get to preach morality when you’ve never once faced your own reflection honestly.

Here’s your final warning:
Fix your mindset. Fix your ego. Fix your pathetic excuse of a personality.
Get it together—or get the hell out of adult spaces, especially chat sites where sexuality is celebrated, not policed.
Because if you can’t handle women owning their power, their voice, or their body— you’re not built for grown-up conversations. You're barely built for human interaction.

Being a man I support this statement of @ukgirl and take accountability without being defensive.

Every word here hits like truth unfiltered . As a man, I won’t pretend that the double standards around sex don’t exist. We’ve built a system where women are judged for the same things we get praised for, and it’s long past time to dismantle that.
Respect isn’t optional—it’s the bare minimum.

If a woman owns her body, her choices, or her silence, it’s not an invitation for judgment. It’s a reflection of her action, something far too many ‘men’ feel threatened by. That’s not strength. That’s cowardice.
Real masculinity isn’t about dominance. It’s about discipline, dignity, and respect.
You don’t win by degrading others. You just expose your weakness louder.
So if you can’t handle a woman being confident, bold, or unapologetic—then it’s not her you need to fix. It’s yourself.

Its time for we man to grow up. Level up. Or stay out of spaces where women thrive—because they don’t owe you softness just to protect your ego.

We need more women like @ukgirl @Aphrodite @KeNZie to open we man's eyes.

My salute @ukgirl . Thank you for sharing. Shows your brilliance , ability to explain, describe and point out exactly to wake up we men.