Human Nature

[LoveYouTwiceAiwain]

We can not change or alter anyones mentality or behaviour, we have to live with it if we want those ppl in our life..

if we try to change it according to our way of thinking, that person will either get mentally disturbed or irritated or both,

even if he she tries to change herself/himself to make you happy, but he/she wont be happy, they will feel something missing inside, some strange feeling...

so, better not to try to change it, just try to adjust with it, you will have happy life.

one thing to be noticed here is, you are trying hard to adjust yourself with her/him, and they never try, then again fights irritatations etc issues will rise.

thats why, mutual understanding and education regarding human psychology is a plus point in relationships to make them last longer or even forever...

what do you think guys?

i myself try to adjust with othrs mentality but most of the time they just hurt and leave..

also i have seen few cases in life where hubby wife relation got messed up due to just willing to have relationship as we read in Books or watch in movies..."happy family of suraj badjaatya movies". or a movie of SRK... lol

 

[Anshhi]

We can not change or alter anyones mentality or behaviour, we have to live with it if we want those ppl in our life..

if we try to change it according to our way of thinking, that person will either get mentally disturbed or irritated or both,

even if he she tries to change herself/himself to make you happy, but he/she wont be happy, they will feel something missing inside, some strange feeling...

so, better not to try to change it, just try to adjust with it, you will have happy life.

one thing to be noticed here is, you are trying hard to adjust yourself with her/him, and they never try, then again fights irritatations etc issues will rise.

thats why, mutual understanding and education regarding human psychology is a plus point in relationships to make them last longer or even forever...

what do you think guys?

i myself try to adjust with othrs mentality but most of the time they just hurt and leave..

also i have seen few cases in life where hubby wife relation got messed up due to just willing to have relationship as we read in Books or watch in movies..."happy family of suraj badjaatya movies". or a movie of SRK... lol

Absolutely. Acceptance and mutual adjustment are indeed far more crucial than trying to change anyone. Your point about unrealistic expectations from media is also spot on; genuine connection thrives on reality, not fantasy.

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