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Do's and Dont's of while sexting/sex chat

If you are chatting with one girl/guy then try and be attentive to him or her. If you multitask then the interest is bound to be lost and the chat is going to go no where so in a nutshell.."Pay attention with whom you are rather than trying to gain the attention of who you want to be with"
 
True Hawkey I agree. But me likes of all the talking lol i can't help it I need to speak u.u
Now jokes aside you're right, main reason why we have the pm option, if talking in main evolves, that's what they're there for :) I prefer talking in pm with my friends sometimes unless there's the good fuckery and laughter going on in main lol
 
Another important aspect is to know when to back off. There is no point in being pushy. If the person on the opposite side does not show interest to chat with you then it is always important to know when to back off rather than just being a irritant chatter. Once you back off then there are more chances that you would be able to chat the next time around. If you are pushy then you just increase your chance of being ignored all the time.
 
Yeah the problem with a lot of people is they do not know when to back off, they either think the other person is not getting their messages so they continue sending more (in the desperate hope they go through) or they think the other person is just ignoring them and then they get all butthurt and abusive.
If you say something sexual to another user and they do not respond to it then that is the time to back off.
 
When initiating sexting you must remember that you are in control and you are playing a role of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get into something freaky. Your words,and voice messages can all be used to paint a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction.Only do what you are comfortable with.
 
Priyariya00 said:
When initiating sexting you must remember that you are in control and you are playing a role of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get into something freaky. Your words,and voice messages can all be used to paint a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction.Only do what you are comfortable with.
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Priyariya00 said:
When initiating sexting you must remember that you are in control and you are playing a role of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get into something freaky. Your words,and voice messages can all be used to paint a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction.Only do what you are comfortable with.
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Approaching stage
Be polite and give some time
Don’t rush and speed up
Have some basic trust and believe over them
Don’t do any dramas and silly pickups
Don’t try to lock the partner emotionally or in the coat of friendship if your need is only sex
Be clear what you need over them such as only sex or sex +friendship
Don’t use them and give them an impression that your treating them as slave

During sexting
Don’t speedup or slow done go with your partner + your speed
Sex is not just a thing that only you receives it’s all about giving and receiving
It’s not only about your pleasure you should make sure the partner also happy
Don’t force your fantasies on your partner if they are not into it
Understood your partner’s fantasy and need and communicate your fantasies and need
Don’t compare
Allow them to be their self
Don’t overthink or overdo go with the flow

When leaving
Have the courtesy to say atleast good bye for the partner who gave pleasure to you at one point
Don’t ping point their sexual flaws (Even if you feel)
Leave with a cool manner even if your partner says ‘No’
At any pint if your gut feeling has a doubt over the partner or loosing trust immediately leave

Say No and accept No
Most importantly at any point have the courage to say No (whenever you feel) No and have the maturity to accept the No

“One person can say No even at bed after naked”

Don’t force
Finally most of the people mis though they say many time “I don’t force”. Don’t force for sex sometimes even if you get by forcing it shows your immature and silliness only

“Forcing is the most cheapest way”
 
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