She fall in love with a guy who was famous amongst girls, they meet each other, propose as well, the guy fully dedicated himself to this girl, no matter he sees smartest girls around, but he only talks and looks at this girl, and avoids other girls totally or lil bit...
time flies, after few days or weeks, she gets bored of him, she starts to flirt with random guys in front of him, and if he say anything abt this, she calls him jealous...
during this flirt era, if her guy talks to any random girl(no matter it is just a reply of Hello, or something casually only), She starts ignoring him, and increases her flirt speed...
Then one day,the guy decides to go back to his previous life(though in that life he wasnt a flirt guy, just a casual talker with girls).
When she sees him doing this, she complains, fights, blame him for blah blah, and totally forgets about what she is still doing with him...
also there is a catch, when she started flirting, the guy just feeling hurted daily, his mind was provking him to flirt back too, but he controlled...
so, back to the story, after few fights and arguments, she surrenders, and they both starts caring each other again...
after few days, she again gets bored of him...and so on... this cycle continues...
so, guys what do you think about this story?
was that girl doing right?
was that girl doing in protest wrong?
I have seen people everywhere saying "give her space"., "spsce"? for what she needs space? to break trust? or to hurt? or just for her own happiness?
and if it is all about her own happiness and self satisfaction, then why this drama of love and romance? she should have flirt with him too and move on.
in my dictionary, love means "caring each others, not hurting each others, not making each other jealous, not saying romantic words to any other girls/guys except each other, not giving false hope to each others, not breaking each others trust in any condition, etc etc"
And, if the couples who claims they love each others so much and they make each others jealous , and there relation is connected just because of flirt and jealousy, isnt it just a glsss castle instead of a Trust bond?
ok, last thing, if guy remains silent on her flirts and ignorance and just wait for her attention back again, will she really going to notice him? in case she is having lots of guys around her?, and even if she talks with him when there are no other guye(whom she talks flirts etc) are not avaible at the moment, Then can it be called as her care and love for him?
and if guy decides to go back to his previoue life, should he be again get attached to her?
One point here i have forgotten is, The guy started ignoring other girls for this girl, those girls wont be feeling insulted?
what a guy should do when he fall in love with a girl, whther stop talking with other girls or not, and if he talks with other girls normally, then does She has rights to complain or ignore him or to flirt instead of normal chatting with guys (in protest)?
and more importantly, isnt it a timepass relation instead of calling it love? like whenever she wanted to talk with him she talks, and when gets bored of him, she ignores and hurts?
in love, your most of available time should be for the person you are claiming you Love, and the time given to othee ppl should be minimum or should be given after asking permission of your partner, am i right?
actually now a days people donno what is timepass and what is love, they just get attracted towards each othes, say darling muha muha etc., knows everything about each others, and during fights uses it against each other for hurting, making jealous, insulting etc etc. and they claim it is Love, not a timepass...
if it was not a timepass, then why She was getting bored of that guy? and after getting bored why wasnt she just normal talking with other guys instead of flirt?
and if it was her nature, then why that guy does not have rights to do things about his nature?
as a guy, i have written this all not taking anyones name, may be i was thinking as per male psychology,
so, if anyone have something to enlighten my knowledge regarding girls psychology, i am all ears...
i apologise to all, in advance:/
time flies, after few days or weeks, she gets bored of him, she starts to flirt with random guys in front of him, and if he say anything abt this, she calls him jealous...
during this flirt era, if her guy talks to any random girl(no matter it is just a reply of Hello, or something casually only), She starts ignoring him, and increases her flirt speed...
Then one day,the guy decides to go back to his previous life(though in that life he wasnt a flirt guy, just a casual talker with girls).
When she sees him doing this, she complains, fights, blame him for blah blah, and totally forgets about what she is still doing with him...
also there is a catch, when she started flirting, the guy just feeling hurted daily, his mind was provking him to flirt back too, but he controlled...
so, back to the story, after few fights and arguments, she surrenders, and they both starts caring each other again...
after few days, she again gets bored of him...and so on... this cycle continues...
so, guys what do you think about this story?
was that girl doing right?
was that girl doing in protest wrong?
I have seen people everywhere saying "give her space"., "spsce"? for what she needs space? to break trust? or to hurt? or just for her own happiness?
and if it is all about her own happiness and self satisfaction, then why this drama of love and romance? she should have flirt with him too and move on.
in my dictionary, love means "caring each others, not hurting each others, not making each other jealous, not saying romantic words to any other girls/guys except each other, not giving false hope to each others, not breaking each others trust in any condition, etc etc"
And, if the couples who claims they love each others so much and they make each others jealous , and there relation is connected just because of flirt and jealousy, isnt it just a glsss castle instead of a Trust bond?
ok, last thing, if guy remains silent on her flirts and ignorance and just wait for her attention back again, will she really going to notice him? in case she is having lots of guys around her?, and even if she talks with him when there are no other guye(whom she talks flirts etc) are not avaible at the moment, Then can it be called as her care and love for him?
and if guy decides to go back to his previoue life, should he be again get attached to her?
One point here i have forgotten is, The guy started ignoring other girls for this girl, those girls wont be feeling insulted?
what a guy should do when he fall in love with a girl, whther stop talking with other girls or not, and if he talks with other girls normally, then does She has rights to complain or ignore him or to flirt instead of normal chatting with guys (in protest)?
and more importantly, isnt it a timepass relation instead of calling it love? like whenever she wanted to talk with him she talks, and when gets bored of him, she ignores and hurts?
in love, your most of available time should be for the person you are claiming you Love, and the time given to othee ppl should be minimum or should be given after asking permission of your partner, am i right?
actually now a days people donno what is timepass and what is love, they just get attracted towards each othes, say darling muha muha etc., knows everything about each others, and during fights uses it against each other for hurting, making jealous, insulting etc etc. and they claim it is Love, not a timepass...
if it was not a timepass, then why She was getting bored of that guy? and after getting bored why wasnt she just normal talking with other guys instead of flirt?
and if it was her nature, then why that guy does not have rights to do things about his nature?
as a guy, i have written this all not taking anyones name, may be i was thinking as per male psychology,
so, if anyone have something to enlighten my knowledge regarding girls psychology, i am all ears...
i apologise to all, in advance:/
