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1. NEVER Double Text.
Double texting screams insecurity.
Women are attracted to men who are confident and in control.
If she hasn’t replied, assume she’s busy—or ignore her.
Your attention is currency. Stop chasing validation.
2. Keep It Short and Playful.
Texting is NOT for deep conversations. It’s for setting up dates or teasing her.
Long paragraphs kill attraction. Short texts = high value. Be fun, flirty, and mysterious. She doesn’t need your life story.
3. Use Emojis Sparingly (or Not at All).
Overusing emojis makes your texts appear immature.
Women want MEN, not boys.
A smirk or wink here and there is fine, but don’t overdo it.
Let your words create the attraction.
4. Don’t Text Her Too Often. Less is more.
The guy who floods her phone with messages loses.
Women are naturally attracted to mystery. If she knows what you’re doing 24/7, you become boring. Let her wonder what you're up to.
5. Be Direct and Lead.
Women hate indecisive men. Stop asking, “What do you want to do?” and start telling her, “Let’s grab a drink Friday at 8.”
Leaders are sexy. Lead her, never follow.
6. Don’t Respond Instantly.
The more available you're, the less desirable you become.
When you reply in 5 seconds, she knows she’s you have nothing else going on—and that’s a turn-off.
Take your time. Let her feel like you’re a busy, in-demand man.
7. Tease Her (But Don’t Be Mean).
Flirting = playful teasing.
Call her out in a fun way. Example:
Her: “I’m bad at texting.”
You: “You’re bad at texting and dating? Must be tough being you.”
This builds tension and keeps her hooked.
8. Mirror Her Energy.
If she’s sending 1-word replies, don’t write essays. Match her vibe. If she’s dry, pull back.
Don’t overcompensate. Let her work to keep your attention.
9. Don’t Overvalidate Her.
Complimenting her constantly = killing attraction.
A simple “You looked cute last night” is enough.
Save validation for when she earns it. Be the prize.
10. Set Up the Date Early.
Texting isn’t the end game; romance is built in person.
Build light rapport, then say, “Let’s meet up.”
If you text for weeks without asking her out, she’ll assume you’re a time-waster—or worse, scared.
11. Don’t Apologize for Being Busy.
Alpha men are BUSY. If she complains about you not texting enough, don’t apologize. Flip the script:
Her: “You never text me.”
You: “Haha, I’ve been busy taking over the world. You miss me already?”
She’ll respect your ambition.
12. Always End on a High Note.
Leave her wanting more. Don’t let the convo die in awkward silence.
End with a flirty or funny line, and stop texting.
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1. NEVER Double Text.
Double texting screams insecurity.
Women are attracted to men who are confident and in control.
If she hasn’t replied, assume she’s busy—or ignore her.
Your attention is currency. Stop chasing validation.
2. Keep It Short and Playful.
Texting is NOT for deep conversations. It’s for setting up dates or teasing her.
Long paragraphs kill attraction. Short texts = high value. Be fun, flirty, and mysterious. She doesn’t need your life story.
3. Use Emojis Sparingly (or Not at All).
Overusing emojis makes your texts appear immature.
Women want MEN, not boys.
A smirk or wink here and there is fine, but don’t overdo it.
Let your words create the attraction.
4. Don’t Text Her Too Often. Less is more.
The guy who floods her phone with messages loses.
Women are naturally attracted to mystery. If she knows what you’re doing 24/7, you become boring. Let her wonder what you're up to.
5. Be Direct and Lead.
Women hate indecisive men. Stop asking, “What do you want to do?” and start telling her, “Let’s grab a drink Friday at 8.”
Leaders are sexy. Lead her, never follow.
6. Don’t Respond Instantly.
The more available you're, the less desirable you become.
When you reply in 5 seconds, she knows she’s you have nothing else going on—and that’s a turn-off.
Take your time. Let her feel like you’re a busy, in-demand man.
7. Tease Her (But Don’t Be Mean).
Flirting = playful teasing.
Call her out in a fun way. Example:
Her: “I’m bad at texting.”
You: “You’re bad at texting and dating? Must be tough being you.”
This builds tension and keeps her hooked.
8. Mirror Her Energy.
If she’s sending 1-word replies, don’t write essays. Match her vibe. If she’s dry, pull back.
Don’t overcompensate. Let her work to keep your attention.
9. Don’t Overvalidate Her.
Complimenting her constantly = killing attraction.
A simple “You looked cute last night” is enough.
Save validation for when she earns it. Be the prize.
10. Set Up the Date Early.
Texting isn’t the end game; romance is built in person.
Build light rapport, then say, “Let’s meet up.”
If you text for weeks without asking her out, she’ll assume you’re a time-waster—or worse, scared.
11. Don’t Apologize for Being Busy.
Alpha men are BUSY. If she complains about you not texting enough, don’t apologize. Flip the script:
Her: “You never text me.”
You: “Haha, I’ve been busy taking over the world. You miss me already?”
She’ll respect your ambition.
12. Always End on a High Note.
Leave her wanting more. Don’t let the convo die in awkward silence.
End with a flirty or funny line, and stop texting.
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