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winee

winee

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before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:





 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
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U are one heck of a woman.... :facepalm:

Wanted to say things but then I will be part of this neusense.

Ragebaiting everytime... Good for engaging ppl :giggle::rofl1:
 
AsikAwara said:
U are one heck of a woman.... :facepalm:

Wanted to say things but then I will be part of this neusense.

Ragebaiting everytime... Good for engaging ppl :giggle::rofl1:
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You call it ragebait, I call it you being easily triggered.
Bro said ‘I won’t engage’ and then engaged professionally,
This is giving ‘I’m not hungry’ but eating fries energy. :giggle: :think:
 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
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Completely agree.

Love isn’t about taking over someone’s responsibilities, it’s about sharing life with someone who already knows how to stand on their own.​
 
winee said:
You call it ragebait, I call it you being easily triggered.
Bro said ‘I won’t engage’ and then engaged professionally,
This is giving ‘I’m not hungry’ but eating fries energy. :giggle: :think:
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Not easily... :angel:

And this why I don't comment on this type of post.
 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
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Can't agree with you more. Being a guy who has been living away from home for almost a decade now I have encountered countless "human beings" who doesn't have the basic etiquettes of cleanliness.
Most of this is taught at the home level and it has to be developed further but Oh My God, I have seen people leave their unwashed plates lying for weeks and weeks thinking that someone else will put that in the sink.
Sad part is I thought all girls are having this sense of responsibility but apparently only some do.
 
Ihsan said:
Can't agree with you more. Being a guy who has been living away from home for almost a decade now I have encountered countless "human beings" who doesn't have the basic etiquettes of cleanliness.
Most of this is taught at the home level and it has to be developed further but Oh My God, I have seen people leave their unwashed plates lying for weeks and weeks thinking that someone else will put that in the sink.
Sad part is I thought all girls are having this sense of responsibility but apparently only some do.
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Agreed. Responsibility is the bare minimum, yet somehow it’s become a luxury.:angel:
 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
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I do all mentioned by care and love of mom and dad..
 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
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Absolutely!!
Any relationship becomes fruitful if both of them contribute equally in all the chores...
It's not the responsibility of any 1 to take care of all things...
Its like a two wheeler ... where the balance of life is maintained by the co-ordination and sync of both the wheels together !
One of them stops investing and the balance of life falls apart!
:angel:
 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
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Its hard to speak truth against whom you love most.Thats what makes you special. It requires courage. Easily put you in their negative ,list but you did it. And whatever you said , yes there are few guys ( like me:tso:) who knows their duty but you are talking about most who dont even realise the universal truth you said about. Salutes you . Your best curious brain gets wonderful topics never seen in my last 4 years on zozo Forum. Keep it up and dont stop because few self acclaimed genius try to pull you down. Ty very much . I am not gender bias yes I am truth bias . :cool:
 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
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Dear Winee…
Read your post ... and honestly, you made a valid point. Responsibility does matter. Basic life skills absolutely matter.
But here’s the deeper root beneath that branch…
Before judging a man only by where he is right now, sometimes it’s worth understanding what phase of life he’s in.
A lot of men begin life heavily pampered .. especially in cultures where boys are often overprotected, excused, or raised without enough practical responsibility. That’s real.
But that starting point isn’t always the final man.
There’s a difference between a boy, a man, and the life that shapes him.
Life has a way of refining men through phases a boyfriend, a husband, a father, a provider, a protector.
Responsibility often isn’t downloaded overnight… it’s built through pressure, experience, failure, and growth.
So yes... don’t choose someone expecting to mother him forever. But also… don’t assume who he is today is all he’ll ever be.
Sometimes the real question is....
Are you choosing a temporary attraction… or a man willing to grow into his responsibilities?
Because growth, accountability, and maturity should absolutely come...but some men are built by life in chapters, not all at once.
So I’d say: Standards matter… absolutely. But so does recognizing potential, willingness, and character.
Some boys stay boys. Some become men because life demands it.
So maybe the balance is..check the present, but also read the direction.
Just my thought: Is it an early judgment… or trust in the process?
Because a real man should absolutely know responsibility… but every man’s journey into it doesn’t always look the same.
​
❤️ Kenneth ​
 
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Dom55 said:
Its hard to speak truth against whom you love most.Thats what makes you special. It requires courage. Easily put you in their negative ,list but you did it. And whatever you said , yes there are few guys ( like me:tso:) who knows their duty but you are talking about most who dont even realise the universal truth you said about. Salutes you . Your best curious brain gets wonderful topics never seen in my last 4 years on zozo Forum. Keep it up and dont stop because few self acclaimed genius try to pull you down. Ty very much . I am not gender bias yes I am truth bias . :cool:
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Thank You Yaa :inlove:
And yes, it’s never about gender—it’s always about truth✨.
 
Ⲕⲉⲛⲛⲉⲧⲏ said:
Dear Winee…
Read your post ... and honestly, you made a valid point. Responsibility does matter. Basic life skills absolutely matter.
But here’s the deeper root beneath that branch…
Before judging a man only by where he is right now, sometimes it’s worth understanding what phase of life he’s in.
A lot of men begin life heavily pampered .. especially in cultures where boys are often overprotected, excused, or raised without enough practical responsibility. That’s real.
But that starting point isn’t always the final man.
There’s a difference between a boy, a man, and the life that shapes him.
Life has a way of refining men through phases a boyfriend, a husband, a father, a provider, a protector.
Responsibility often isn’t downloaded overnight… it’s built through pressure, experience, failure, and growth.
So yes... don’t choose someone expecting to mother him forever. But also… don’t assume who he is today is all he’ll ever be.
Sometimes the real question is....
Are you choosing a temporary attraction… or a man willing to grow into his responsibilities?
Because growth, accountability, and maturity should absolutely come...but some men are built by life in chapters, not all at once.
So I’d say: Standards matter… absolutely. But so does recognizing potential, willingness, and character.
Some boys stay boys. Some become men because life demands it.
So maybe the balance is..check the present, but also read the direction.
Just my thought: Is it an early judgment… or trust in the process?
Because a real man should absolutely know responsibility… but every man’s journey into it doesn’t always look the same.
​
❤️ Kenneth ​
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Good Day!
Beautifully said✨ just feel like some ‘chapters’ shouldn’t take a lifetime to unlock… especially the basic ones .

Groth does happen in phases and people definitely evolve with time, no doubt about that. But at the same time, I feel basic responsibility shouldn’t be treated like some ‘future achievement’ or ‘later chapter unlock’. It’s more like the foundation everything else is built on, not an upgrade you install later.

Potential is cute, I really do agree with that part , but at some point, reality matters more than potential. Because no one really lives in ‘future version of you’, they deal with who you are right now yaa!

So yeah growth is beautiful… growth is fine, but basics shouldn’t be a future feature—they should already be installed ❤️
 
winee said:
before you lose yourself over a guy, think once if he can wash his own plate, knows the basics of cooking, put his dirty clothes in the laundry bag, wash and iron his own clothes, make his own bed and not mess it up after you've made it, flush the toilet and lock the doors without you reminding him a hundred times, and help around the house when needed because after all, he's just a guy it's the obsession that makes him special .


Not your mom, not your maid,
not your reminder app.
Romance is cute, responsibility is hotter!
:kiss:
Click to expand...
Quite true! Romance may be temporary, but responsibility builds lifelong trust.
Awesome Intelligence™​
 
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