I don't know about this.. but I want to tell my version ..
From the beginning, I have always been like this. I cannot judge a person. I greet and talk to everyone with a full heart. I like to talk to people and stay friendly with everyone, but I don’t easily get attracted or attached to anyone.
I never really know how others feel about me, and I also don’t focus too much on how they behave with me or what mood they are in. Everyone has different situations and emotions, and moods can change at any moment. Someone who speaks harshly to me today might want to be friendly with me tomorrow, and someone who laughs and talks with me today might become distant or harsh the next day.
In virtual When I first came here, many people hated me and even abused me. But after some time, those same people started talking nicely with me. Some of them became my friends, and a few even became very close. Now some of those close people are distant again.
That’s why I don’t try to judge anyone. Instead, I focus on myself and think about whether I am speaking kindly and behaving well. I always try to talk sincerely and treat everyone with respect. From my side, I just prefer to be genuine, friendly, and speak with a full heart.
The opposite person is also someone’s opposite person, just like I am. When I am in a bad mood or feeling sad, my eyes, my smile, and my behavior are not the same as usual. I may look different or changed in those moments.
That’s why I don’t judge a person easily. Because just like me, they might also be going through something or feeling different at that moment.