THIRD PERSON ~ THE UNINVITED GUEST

[Illusion]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....

 

[subsar]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

The presence of a "third person" can be beneficial or destructive for a happy life, depending on the context and whether it's a person, a hobby, a job, or even a new perspective. For relationships, this "third" can foster greater transparency and connection when it's a shared, positive focus, but can lead to betrayal and broken trust when it involves infidelity. In terms of personal well-being, a third-person perspective can bring objectivity, emotional distance, and a greater understanding of oneself, leading to growth and a more fulfilling life, especially when one feels stuck or unhappy.

 

[zhou]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

True

 

[Juliette]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

Exactly, sometimes it’s not the bond itself that’s weak, it’s the noise created from outside.

 

[Illusion]

The presence of a "third person" can be beneficial or destructive for a happy life, depending on the context and whether it's a person, a hobby, a job, or even a new perspective. For relationships, this "third" can foster greater transparency and connection when it's a shared, positive focus, but can lead to betrayal and broken trust when it involves infidelity. In terms of personal well-being, a third-person perspective can bring objectivity, emotional distance, and a greater understanding of oneself, leading to growth and a more fulfilling life, especially when one feels stuck or unhappy.

I get your point but what I meant was specifically about the presence of a third person in any bonding or relationship...It usually ends up causing trouble, even if not always...

 

[Illusion]

Exactly, sometimes it’s not the bond itself that’s weak, it’s the noise created from outside.

True… most bonds don’t break from within, they break because of the noise and influence from outside..

 

[Illusion]

True

Yup

 

[Garygoodboy]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

I get this too xx

 

[subsar]

I get your point but what I meant was specifically about the presence of a third person in any bonding or relationship...It usually ends up causing trouble, even if not always...

yes , you are right

 

[Illusion]

yes , you are right

Ya

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

Hey dearo... But you don't worry. Our love is a fortress, and no one else can get in.

 

[Anshhi]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

So well said. Misunderstandings can be fixed, but a third person's venomous influence plants seeds of doubt that are almost impossible to uproot. Nothing is more destructive.

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